One of the most difficult to explain human organs is the hymen, the membrane that partially seals the entrance to the vagina of a girl or young woman whose vagina has never been penetrated

It appears to serve NO useful purpose

In the day to day existence of someone who does NOT believe in the Creator and does NOT seek to live life according to His commandments this membrane certainly serves no useful purpose

However, once one understands its REAL purpose it becomes apparent that the hymen is a critically important organ in the plans of the Creator for men and women

The hymen evidences that the woman has never engaged in sexual intercourse and it is therefore safe for a man to join himself to her

If she has already joined herself to another man and she now joins herself to a further man both she and the new man are committing adultery and, IF they are believers, they will both face a period in the place of correction known as Hell after they die

This is unless she is divorced in the Court of Heaven

When a man penetrates a virgin for the first time blood is shed and ushers in a life time blood covenant in terms of which he accepts responsibility for the wellbeing of the woman for life and she accepts that she is one with the man for life

Virginity is an extremely important gift from the Creator and must be given wisely if one is truly committed to serving Him

There are prayers that can be prayed and measures that can be taken in certain cases where virginity has been given or taken unwisely

See the detailed article below for more information

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I have recently been contacted by a number of women who are in abusive marriages asking what they should do

In each case, on inquiry, it turned out that the man who took their virginity was NOT the man they were married to and they were still in contact with the man who took their virginity

The simple answer in each case was that, notwithstanding whatever church or civil marriage rite they had been through with their present man {husband} they were still in covenant with the first man in the sight of Yah AND in the sight of the spirit world and therefore they were in adultery with the man they called “husband” with the result that spiritually these men were entitled to treat them roughly because they were legally regarded as whores in the spirit realm AND the Satanic and specifically demonic realm therefore had full rights to attack their unions and the women

The further, theoretically simple answer was that they should both return to the man who took their virginity

The problem with this answer is that our society does NOT understand it or agree with it and, in one case it would have meant the man having two women because he was living with another woman whose virginity he had ALSO taken and there was NO way that other woman was going to “share her husband”

In one case it turned out that the woman left her covenant man, the man to whom she gave her virginity, because he was NOT to her liking and did not measure up to her standards religiously and in other ways, the problem is, that in terms of covenant that is NOT acceptable!

Why do I say all this?

Very simply, Yah created women with a hymen, a thin membrane that partially covers the entrance to the vagina.  In most instances it is necessary to rupture the hymen in order to have sexual intercourse with full penetration

When this happens blood is generally shed

There ARE exceptions, particularly with older women and with women who have engaged in strenuous sports or women who have inserted absorbent items in their vagina during menstruation

However, the fundamental principle is that Yah created women to bleed when they first have sexual intercourse with vaginal penetration

Once the hymen is ruptured it CANNOT heal and it is therefore only possible for a woman to give her virginity and shed blood once

The hymen is therefore a form of safety seal which evidences that a woman is a virgin

This is critical because the shedding of blood is a fundamental component of entering into covenant and so, we see, that Yah created women with the fundamental intent of women covenanting with their man and, since they can only shed blood once, of covenanting with ONLY one man

On the other hand males have NO corresponding seal

A man can take the virginity of any number of women and there is NO evidence that he has done this

Accordingly it is evident that Yah created men that they might covenant with more than one woman

The fact that our society, or certainly Eurocentric society, is unable to accept this and that social and demonic programming has produced generations of Christian and Western women who cannot conceive of or tolerate the possibility of sharing their man is a harsh reality which gives rise to a situation where it is extremely inadvisable for a man to try and enter into covenant with more than one woman UNLESS those women all voluntarily and willingly ask him to do this

Insofar as this article is NOT about the merits and fundamental reality that Yah created men to be in covenant with a number of women I will NOT discuss this further in this article – there are a number of articles on the website that discuss this topic in much more detail

My main point is that sexual intercourse with a virgin IS a covenant act and that, whether we like it or not, at the moment that blood is shed a covenant is entered into that is INTENDED to be unbreakable and for life

The only basis for severance of the covenant is extreme treachery by one of the parties which includes, but is NOT limited to adultery, that is the woman having sexual intercourse with another man

Note that consummation during menstrual flow defiles the covenant, that is NOT “safe sex” – Yah forbids intercourse during menstrual flow and for some time before and after

In practice based on humble supplication Yah MAY grant grace such that a severance of the covenant (divorce) MAY be granted under particular circumstances such that the woman may enter into covenant with another man through sexual intercourse in the form of ejaculation in the vagina by the man alone -- no shedding of blood but the semen contains all the genetic elements of blood as well as containing salt and so a form of blood covenant and a salt covenant are entered into – note that these elements are ALSO present in the covenant with a virgin

To better understand this discussion it is important to know that the reason that there is ALWAYS blood in the consummation of a covenant, whether sexually with a virgin or any other form of covenant, is that the terms of the covenant are fundamentally “if you break this covenant you will DIE” – see

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/247/2011-01-06-The-blood-of-any-covenant-means-death-to-those-who-break-it.aspx

Thus, in strict terms the ONLY basis for being released from a covenant is if one partner dies or commits a sin that leads to death at a level that is BEYOND repentance

In any situation less than this the covenant may NOT be set aside by the Court of Heaven

In addition to this, there are very specific terms that Yah prescribes for the covenant between a man and a woman through the shedding of the virgin’s blood that CAN be overridden ONLY by agreement BEFORE the blood is shed

These terms can be understood through the example set by Yahooshua and what is set out in Ephesians 5 and elsewhere:

MAN:

•  lead your woman closer to Yah

•  love her even if she beats you, flogs you and nails you to a stake

•  treat her gently and tenderly

•  provide for her

•  make love to her tenderly and skilfully

•  accept her the way she is when you covenant with her and do NOT try and change her

•  comply with any specific terms you may have agreed BEFORE consummation (additional terms are NOT necessary) – the previous terms apply UNLESS you contract OUT BEFORE consummation

•  most women today would want their man to agree to monogamy, the default terms do NOT include monogamy, they include polygyny, more than one woman with one man – it is important to be absolutely clear on this point BEFORE consummation – if he is having sex with other women when he consummates with you do NOT be surprised when he continues to do this subsequent AND you will have no basis to complain UNLESS you covenanted exclusive monogamy

•  break this covenant and you will die

WOMAN:

•  follow your man wherever he goes and promote him towards Yah

•  love him and submit to him in EVERYTHING even if he requires you to be beaten, flogged and nailed to a stake

•  honour and adore him

•  support him and work with him in all his endeavours

•  bear his children and raise them

•  make love to him passionately and skilfully

•  keep yourself to him only sexually

•  accept him the way he is when you covenant with him and do NOT try and change him – if he was drunk when you consummated accept that he will be drunk again

•  comply with any specific terms you may have agreed BEFORE consummation (additional terms are NOT necessary) – the previous terms apply UNLESS you contract OUT BEFORE consummation

•  break this covenant and you will die

NOTICE that there is NO way out

No way to say, “BUT he …” or “BUT she …”

Once you have entered into covenant you are in it literally “until death do us part”, be it physical death or be it spiritual death

Over the years I have heard ALL sorts of exclamations about how unjust this is

Fact is, it is only unjust BECAUSE we have been LIED TO comprehensively and you just thought you were having a good time because you loved or lusted one another, IF you had known the truth it is likely that most men and women would NOT have taken and given virginity nearly so easily and mostly NOT to the person that they did

IF you understand covenant you will make ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN before you engage in sexual intercourse, you will evaluate the other party and establish exactly what they stand for and what they believe, you will agree any terms he consider important and she considers important, you will EXCLUDE any of the terms above you do NOT agree with

Understand that you accept each other with ALL your undisclosed weaknesses, addictions, vices, etc so pray and MAKE sure that you are certain this is Yah’s leading BEFORE you consummate

IF you want to reverse roles and have her lead you are at liberty to do that, provided you do it BEFORE you consummate

IF you want to serve Satan instead of Yah you are free to agree that BEFORE you consummate

BUT if she wants to serve Yah and he wants to serve Satan and you do NOT discuss it then it is his covenant right to expect submission and if he beats her and torments her and forces her into prostitution and to use drugs and to enter into Satanic rites he is ENTITLED to because those are the terms of the covenant – submit in EVERYTHING

A way out?

Because of the lies and the lack of knowledge Yah DOES grant grace in the event of humble and contrite supplication coupled to repentance but NOT always

It depends on what YOU knew before hand and your circumstances after consummation

In particular, since the vast majority of women are NOT living with the man who took their virginity there is a basic remedy

Woman

If you are a woman -- contact the man who took your virginity and ask him to take you under his covering and comply with the above terms as established at the time of consummation – preferably do this face to face, if not face to face then in writing and if not in writing, verbally BUT note that IF your attitude is wrong and you push him away your approach will count for nothing in the Court of Heaven

IF you do it meekly and gently and he turns you away and refuses to do right by you, you then have a basis to ask Yah for divorce and the sin will be on the head of the man

IF you cannot locate the man, make every reasonable attempt to contact him and, if after that you have still not been able to contact him (assisted by appropriate prayers and worldly measures like Facebook, etc) you then have a basis for divorce and to ask Yah for grace and mercy

If you are living with another man in marriage or covenant and he refuses to let you do this the sin is upon him – he must remember that he is in adultery and will burn in the Lake of Fire for at least some time UNLESS the situation is cleaned up so it is in his interests for you to do this (contact the first man) in the hope that the first man will decline

Once you have reached a point where Yah grants divorce you are then in a position to pray the appropriate prayers see

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/391/2012-06-13-Separation-of-a-Man-and-a-Woman-who-were-in-sexual-union-%7Bdivorce%7D.aspx

Once you have done that and cleaned up relative to ALL other sexual relationships you are then free to enter into covenant with your present man OR, provided you do NOT have sex with him again, leave him – separate discussion but since you have been in adultery you are NOT bound to him in the Court of Heaven but be aware that if you have made love regularly you will suffer massive trauma if you leave him for the wrong reasons

Man

If you are a man you face the reverse situation, you come to realize that you took the virginity of a woman and are responsible for her before Yah until death but she is NOT with you – contact her and offer to take her under your covering – you must do this with the RIGHT attitude

IF she turns you away you have a basis for divorce

IF you cannot locate her make every reasonable effort through prayers, Facebook, etc and, if you fail, you have a basis to ask for mercy and a divorce

Once you have the divorce from Yah apply the same prayers, etc set out in the document referenced above – cut one-flesh bonds, etc

IF you (man) are living with another woman and she refuses to allow you to do this, the sin is upon her – she needs to understand that UNLESS you clean up you will spend time in the Lake of Fire so, assuming she loves you, she should support you in this

IF your present woman was NOT a virgin when you took her you need her to go through the same process as outlined above

IF you took the virginity of a number of women you need to do this repeatedly

After cleaning up

Once you have prayed the prayers set out in the document referenced above you can enter into a covenant with your present man or woman either on the basis of the terms set out above or other terms you may agree

This requires cutting of ALL other one flesh bonds, soul ties and other spiritual connections, renouncing vows and promises including inner vows and physically cutting ties as appropriate BEFORE you enter into a new covenant – stop communicating with the past men or women UNLESS by PRIOR agreement with firm resolve on your part to keep ALL contact to strictly arm’s length as necessitated by particular situations

Note that love never dies but you can put it aside and NOT give it place – the love for each person is in its own compartment, you can pray for the compartment to be sealed and never open it and also pray for all desire for that person to be closed off

Note that if the woman is legally married to another man with a divorce pending, even if she has separated and all the relevant prayers have been prayed, the forces of darkness will STILL secure a judgment for adultery so it is necessary for the woman to be legally divorced BEFORE consummation

To enter into a new covenant you should take the bread and wine and pray over the covenant meal and recite the agreed terms – see other documents referenced below

Be aware that sexual intercourse with ejaculation by the male in the vagina of the female introduces a covenant, albeit weaker than that resulting from the virgin’s blood unless reinforced by taking the blood and wine of the covenant of Yahooshua in which case the covenant is of the same strength

IF you do NOT agree explicit terms the terms set out above will apply

Not about all the other stuff we hear in our world

Notice that covenant is a tough, no nonsense CONTRACT

It is possible for any man and any woman to be attracted and “fall in love”

It is possible for them to “fall out of love”

It is possible for them to have “good sex” even if they are from totally different backgrounds

BUT if they do NOT take account of the standard covenant terms, make them explicit in their search for a “life partner” and negotiate firmly BEFORE consummation they are likely to make a SERIOUS mistake

The reason most marriage fail is because they started out on the wrong foot with no knowledge of covenant and, from day one they have been breaking the default terms at some level and most of the time she was NOT a virgin so everything is messed up and defiled

There is ONLY one answer, clean up, do the necessary hard yards, pray the necessary prayers, have the TOUGH conversation and THEN consummate PROPERLY

Added complexity – the Isaiah 4:1 factor

Isaiah chapter four verse 1 suggests that in this age there will be seven times more women than men – in practice this applies to the body of true believers where there are today, indeed approximately seven women to every man

However, Isaiah’s solution, of seven women covenanting with one man is NOT possible in Western society, the women cannot and will not share and the men cannot cope – I know, I tried it at Father’s request and failed miserably and painfully until I asked Father to allow me to enter into a monogamous covenant

Reality therefore is that MOST believing women are better off single since there are simply NOT nearly sufficient genuine believing men to go round – see article referenced at the end

That said it is vital to understand that if you are a man you are created to be able to covenant with more than one woman so, unless you keep your eyes, mind and heart closely focused on your woman you WILL sooner or later find another woman who attracts you.  At that point, you have a choice, if you have a monogamous covenant, keep it or break it and break your woman and burn

It is ALSO important to understand that ANY man and ANY woman can be attracted and, if you use worldly criteria it will ALWAYS be possible to find another who appears to be “better” than your current partner – again, once you understand covenant you should NOT allow such attractions or close working relationships to even begin to get out of hand

If you treat your partner badly they are much more likely to fall for another, so obey the covenant and treat them will

It is NOT about falling in love, it IS about KEEPING covenant

What about love?

What about love you ask?

Well, the reason it is called “making love” is because, IF a man and woman “make love” to one another, especially in a caring, loving manner, a spiritual FORCE that we know as love will come into existence.  This spiritual force is designed to hold man and woman together and will NEVER die but it CAN be murdered through continual strife, rebellion, violence, treachery, adultery, etc

You do NOT enter into union BECAUSE you love, you love BECAUSE you are in union

So care for and cherish one another, make love regularly, considerately and skilfully and the risk of “falling in love” with someone else will be greatly reduced

The one-flesh bond the KEY component

Something else impacts the situation of man and woman

When a man or woman reaches a sexual climax or orgasm a portion of their spirit is ejected from the vagina in the woman and the penis in the man

In both cases the sexual organs are at the end of a spiritual “duct” that connects the sexual organs to the spiritual heart, the core, the centre of the man and the woman thus, when a man ejaculates in the vagina of a woman a portion of his spirit flows into her and up the duct in her spirit to attach to her heart, when she orgasms over his penis a portion of her spirit flows down over his penis and up the corresponding duct to attach to his spiritual heart – this is the “one-flesh bond” and this is the reason why adultery is an abomination in the site of Yah – it is spiritual chaos, everyone joined to everyone else

These spiritual ties do NOT, however, break, they are like infinitely elastic strands that join the man to the woman, the more frequently and the more passionately the man and woman make love the stronger this bond becomes such that they begin to know each other’s thoughts and to be able to communicate without words, even if they are separated by half the world

The one-flesh bond together with the love bond and the covenant terms are ALL designed to ENSURE that the union succeeds provided you BOTH adhere to the terms of the covenant

If they fight and argue the bond will get weaker

A weaker bond is formed in the event of male ejaculation in the mouth, vulva or anus of the woman and an even weaker bond is formed in the event of ejaculation elsewhere on the body.  Likewise if the woman orgasms in contact with the man other than with his penis in her vagina, e.g. on his hand, a weaker bond is formed

When a man and woman who are already one masturbate apart from one another the spiritual “ejaculate” will flow down the existing tie

This SAME bond is formed in casual and adulterous sex, sex with prostitutes and EVEN masturbation in phone sex or looking intensely at pictures or fantasizing about someone

Bottom line?

ONLY have sex with your life partner!

Once the bond has been formed, specific prayers are required, see the reference above and the other articles listed at the end of this article.  There is much more material on the website

The seven days of consummation

There is a spiritual window of seven days, seven being the number of completion and perfection, from the moment that the covenant is first consummated – shedding of blood with a virgin or male ejaculation in the vagina in the case of a truly divorced woman

During this window the couple should spend all their time together, make love as frequently as possible and build their relationship in a caring and loving manner – a union based on such a foundation will be very strong and much more likely to last for life

A one night stand or quickie has very little probability of success and, once the covenant has been consummated and the seven days have elapsed you will NEVER again have that same opportunity to build a strong foundation

Choosing a partner and marrying

Too late for most but perhaps NOT for our children

I have concluded that the old fashioned approach of parents choosing partners for their children is the way to go BUT NOT in the rough fashion that some practised

Establish that the proposed couple come from the same background, have the same values and religious beliefs and moral standards, agree to this form of introduction, agree the covenant terms based on what is set out above, have a party and consummate the union OR consummate the union and then a week later have a party

Whatever you do do NOT let the couple get even vaguely drunk before they consummate, the important thing is the consummation NOT the party

And do NOT keep them up late – as far as I am concerned a party BEFORE is OUT

If the man and woman are mature and previously married then a sober discussion of what they stand for, what they want and who they are and formal agreement of covenant terms is vital BEFORE consummation in the form of ejaculation by the man in the vagina of the woman – up to that point there is NO covenant although a betrothal bond WILL come into existence with male ejaculation in the mouth, vulva or anus and that is ALREADY creating a level of lock-in

Wedding ceremonies, because they deny virginity and put a pastor or priest or law officer in the office of a pagan priest are at some level pagan and cursed so be VERY careful who officiates and WHAT they say and what YOU say – vows AFTER consummation are FRAUDULENT and to be avoided UNLESS you recite EXACTLY what you previously agreed and you declare that this is what you are doing

African tribal weddings and those for many other people groups are totally pagan and should, if at all possible, be avoided totally – if not be very prescriptive about what is said and done – better to offend your relatives than to curse your union – BUT honour your father and mother so NOT easy – ask nicely to be released from a ceremony and JUST have a party

Overall, for a mature couple, better to hide away at home for a week and have a really solid consummation and then invite the family for a party later and, if you want the full legal picture arrange a form of wedding which is explicitly a blessing of what has already happened in order to fullfil the legal requirements for the woman to gain the man’s name.

Note that it IS Yah’s intention that the woman should take the man’s surname

My wife and I did this with a comprehensive covenant making based on the standard terms and entered into just between the two of us after clear discussion and agreement.  We are extremely close and in love as Yah intended covenant union between man and woman to be

Conclusion

There is considerable complexity with regard to covenant union between men and women that needs to be understood in order to have a sustainable and successful life time covenant union

There is much more that I hope to write in time

Other References

Various articles on the website that have a bearing on this subject

The blood of any covenant means death to those who break it

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/247/2011-01-06-The-blood-of-any-covenant-means-death-to-those-who-break-it.aspx

The Spiritual Interaction between Man and Woman

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/388/2012-06-09-The-Spiritual-Interaction-between-Man-and-Woman-in-sexual-union-%7Bhusband-and-wife-in-marr.aspx

The role of man and the role of woman

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/402/2012-07-11-The-role-of-man-and-the-role-of-woman.aspx

Understanding Divorce

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/404/2012-07-13-Understanding-Divorce.aspx

Malachi and Yahooshua – Divorce – REALLY?

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/413/2012-08-05-Malachi-and-Yahooshua-Divorce-REALLY.aspx

Cleave is NOT adhere

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/415/2012-08-07-Cleave-is-NOT-adhere.aspx

Important Prayers

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/420/2012-10-01-Important-Prayers.aspx

Treachery is a Spiritual Force

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/tabid/93/smid/544/reftabid/124/Default.aspx?key=Treachery+is+a+Spiritual+Force

A contentious woman is as rottenness in the bones

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/363/2011-12-03-A-contentious-woman-is-as-rottenness-in-the-bones.aspx

The one flesh bond

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/298/2011-04-08-The-one-flesh-bond.aspx

The dilemma of the Isaiah 4:1 phenomenon

http://www.end-time-issue-ministries.org/Articles/ArticleViewPage/tabid/124/ArticleId/281/2011-03-01-The-dilemma-of-the-Isaiah-4-1-phenomenon.aspx

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

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One of the most obviously false teachings is that the word “cleave” in Genesis where it is written “for this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and cleave unto his woman” is that the word cleave means “adhere” or “stick” or similar.

Cleave means to part or cut.

A gemstone may have a plane of cleavage such that if we strike a sharp blow to a sharp instrument placed on that plane the gemstone will split open.

Women have a “cleavage” – a cleft between their breasts.

Butchers use “meat cleavers” -- large cutting blades that they use to cleave (cut) the meat into portions.

How does the word “cleave” then mean “adhere”?

It means “adhere” because Christianity has lost sight of the true meaning and the true meaning nullifies Yah’s plan for man and woman.

A woman has another cleft, it is between her legs and it is OBVIOUSLY a cleft, that cleft has the outward appearance of a wound cut with a knife or cleaver and when that cleft is first penetrated – that is “cleaved” -- blood is shed.

That organ exactly replicates the covenant act of splitting open the covenant animal and walking in the blood that signifies the formation of a covenant and which signifies that there is a DEATH PENALTY for breaking covenant.

Inherently this means that a blood covenant is cut between a man who cleaves into a woman with the shedding of blood and that therefore sexual intercourse always was and always will be the act of cutting covenant and repeated intercourse is a rehearsal of the act of cutting covenant.

This silence of the church on the sanctity and importance of virginity is compounded by verbiage that associates “cleave” with “adhere” which is necessary because the church lies about virginity and pretends that the “pastor” or “priest” has some authority to pronounce on a covenant union {marriage}.

Sexual intercourse is a sacred, covenant act and should be treated as such.  Yes, it can give great pleasure but first and foremost it is a covenant act. Labelling it “adhere” or “stick to” is absolutely NOT valid.

Conclusion

There is great wrong teaching regarding the verse in Genesis which speaks of a man cleaving to his woman – this relates to the covenant act of sexual intercourse and NOT “adhesion” between the man and woman.

There is great error in teachings relating to this act, specifically teachings that nullify the importance of virginity.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

 

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Many people regard sexual intercourse as carnal and physical when it is, in fact, the most spiritual act a man or woman can enter into with the exception of the act of faith required to believe in the Almighty and accept His Spirit to dwell within us.

This article outlines the main aspects of the spiritual forces that come into play as a consequence of a sexual union between a man and a woman – note that these SAME forces will come into play in the event of sexual union between two men or two women or between multiple men and / or multiple women, most of them will come into effect in the event of sexual union between an animal and a human as well – this is why sex with an animal is such an abomination and why promiscuous sex is also an abomination.

Where such union takes place as a consequence of sin or the relationship has broken down to the point of divorce sanctioned in the Court of Heaven ALL of these aspects need to be dealt with in order to FULLY cut ties – Yah willing this will be discussed in a subsequent article.

For the purposes of this article I will restrict discussion to the sexual union of one man with one woman, the other situations follow the same pattern.  These factors are the same whether in the case of casual sex (one night stand or prostitute) or a long term relationship and whether there is a formal covenant {marriage} union or not.

Note that in the sight of the Almighty human marriage ceremonies have no relevance if they contradict the verdict of the Court of Heaven – a marriage with a woman who is NOT free to marry in the sight of the Almighty is still adultery and will result in time in the Lake of Fire and Brimstone irrespective of how nice the ceremony or how anointed the marriage officer is considered to be – the marriage ceremony is fundamentally a pagan rite that has no validity in the sight of Yah although the forces of darkness WILL turn such a ceremony to their advantage and the vows are binding.

The spiritual components that come into being in a sexual union between a man and a woman are as follows:

1.  Soul ties (friendship ties) and memories

Immediately a man and woman start getting to know one another they will start to form soul ties or friendship ties – these have a spiritual dimension and create a spiritual link that can become very strong.

These ties form between any two human beings as they get to know each other and get stronger the greater the friendship, it is written that “David loved Jonathan as his own soul” – 1 Samuel 18:1.

Associated with the ties of friendship we start to form memories, whether good or bad.

Pleasant soul ties and memories will draw a man and woman towards one another and therefore care must be exercised when a man and woman associate with one another where consummation of the attraction is not permitted, as in the case of a man and woman who work together where she is married to another man.

2.  Sexual attraction / desire – chemistry

Sexual attraction and desire develop between a man and woman the moment they consider the possibility of sexual contact with one another and do not place that desire under strict control.

This chemistry is designed to hold a man and woman in covenant union together over time and to strengthen the one-flesh bond but also forms easily when there are friendship ties, for example in the work place, and must therefore be managed carefully.

           3.   Spirit to spirit adhesion

Intense body to body contact as in heavy embraces, cuddling, French kissing (open mouth on open mouth), etc can give rise to spirit to spirit adhesion that leaves ties in place that remain even after the relationship has ended unless they are cut off.

4.  Contractual ties – promises, vows, oaths, covenant

At some point in a relationship the man and woman will start to make promises to one another, these may be simple and flippant promises or they can be more conscious and deliberate vows or they may go all the way to taking oaths with reference to the shedding of blood if the oath is broken (includes taking “communion”) – this is the fundamental essence of covenant – a vow with blood that represents death to the one who breaks the vow or covenant.

It is extremely unwise to take flippant or lightly intended vows or promises in a marriage ceremony – legally in the Court of Heaven those vows are binding and will be used to judge the people involved for the rest of the relationship.

We use the phrase “broken promise” easily but, in the spiritual realm, a broken promise, vow or oath has a tangible almost physical manifestation.  I have heard a vow break – it sounds like a very dry stick breaking.

Breaking a vow or oath can have huge spiritual consequences, the person on the receiving end of the betrayal can experience massive spiritual, emotional and physical trauma if they have placed considerable reliance on that vow or promise and have possibly invested a significant amount of time and effort into actions predicated on that vow or promise.

Once a vow has been broken it requires whole hearted repentance on the part of the offending party in order to rebuild and it may never be rebuilt.

Trust is a gift and when broken it is difficult to restore.

5.  Yah’s default covenant terms

When a man and a woman who is free to have intercourse have sexual intercourse Yah’s default covenant terms immediately come into play UNLESS the man and woman actively take vows or oaths that directly countermand Yah’s default contractual terms BEFORE intercourse.

In simple terms when a man take a woman’s virginity, blood is shed which automatically invokes a covenant with a death sentence and in the absence of alternative contractual terms the life-long terms of the covenant are:

•  Man is head of the woman and must protect her Ephesians 5:25 and other verses

•  Woman must submit to her man in EVERYTHING – Ephesian 5:24, 1 Peter 3:1 and other verses

When a man takes the “virginity” of a truly divorced woman or widow the same rules apply although it is advisable to take the bread and wine under such circumstances. 

6.  One-flesh bond

The one-flesh bond is a spiritual connection between the spirits of the man and woman that comes into existence the moment one of them experiences orgasm and releases a spurt of their spirit in such a way that that spurt can connect with and bind to the other person.

A one-flesh bond can be formed by using the hand or mouth or other part of the body to bring the other person to orgasm as well as during conventional sexual intercourse with vaginal penetration.

If the orgasm is weak the bond is weak and if it is strong a stronger bond is formed.

The more strong orgasms that are experienced the stronger the bond becomes.

Simultaneous orgasm will result in the most rapid growth in the strength of the one-flesh bond.

One-flesh bonds can be formed at a very low key level through the air if both parties focus on one another and masturbate to orgasm – even half way around the world.

The moment a man and woman form a one-flesh bond without vaginal intercourse, even through mutual masturbation or oral stimulation, the Court of Heaven finds them to be betrothed unless the bond is adulterous.

Once orgasm is achieved by either partner vaginally the couple are viewed as being in a life time covenant union by the Court of Heaven provided that the union is not adulterous.

Adultery in the Court of Heaven is very straightforward -- it is the formation of a one-flesh bond between a man and a woman where the woman already has a one-flesh bond with another man, whether the relationship with that man has broken down and they have a legal divorce or whether she is “cheating” on him.

Note that in the event that a woman betrays her man sexually a spirit of jealousy (Numbers 5:14) will come upon him and he will become irritable, bad tempered and even aggressively angry.

A legal divorce means NOTHING if the Court of Heaven does not agree with the verdict and is ONLY valid IF the one-flesh bond has been cut.

The one-flesh bond CANNOT be cut by deliverance style prayers, it requires very specific prayer in humility and supported by legal argument in order to be cut.  Only the Almighty, Himself, is able to cut a one-flesh bond.  The party requesting the severance of the one-flesh bond must have a solid legal basis and robustly WANT the bond cut, it is easier to cut a one flesh bond when someone with the necessary knowledge and anointing leads the prayer.

The one-flesh bond ties the man and woman together even if they are on opposite sides of the plant.

A strong one-flesh bond will allow the parties to know one another’s thoughts and to speak with one voice, a really strong one-flesh bond allows the woman to act as the man’s representative and speak his will into a situation even if they are separated by thousands of kilometres.

A strong one-flesh bond will eventually cause a man and a woman to look more like one another and behave more like one another over time as it grows stronger.

The one-flesh bond will remain at its full strength for ever in this life as long as both parties live unless there is abuse, treachery, angry words, etc that murder the one-flesh bond.  Otherwise it will remain of full force for all of their lives whether they are legally divorced and living miles apart or whether they are living together.

It is technically possible for one human being to have direct one-flesh bonds with hundreds of other human beings in which case all sorts of complications arise and witches and other agents of Satan can use the one-flesh bond to manipulate and control believers.

Once a person is joined to people that have one-flesh bonds with prostitutes or Satanists they are effectively one-flesh with virtually the entire population of the planet with the exception of those who have strictly disciplined themselves NOT to get into this situation.

Note that the anointing flows through the one-flesh bond between the parties so that a partner who joins to others who are not anointed will have the anointing drain out of both of the partners.

Where one partner in a closed union {marriage} allows fear, rebellion, etc to enter their lives this connects them to the forces of darkness and will drain anointing out of both parties.

7.  Transfer / replication of demons and curses

The minute a one-flesh bond is formed the demons on each person clone themselves onto the other person – thus, after first intercourse, the man has a full set of the woman’s demons and the woman has a full set of the man’s demons.

Where one of the parties has had sex with numerous partners and never cut ties and been delivered tens of thousands of demons can be involved in this situation.

These demons will encourage sinful behaviour that is present in the source party to manifest in the other party and the two people will start to behave more alike because of similar demonic manifestations in both of them.

Note that it is unlikely that any person on earth is entirely free of demons, we ALL have sin and as long as we have sin we give the relevant demons legal right to attach to us.

8.  The divided house / harmony

The moment a one-flesh bond is formed the parties become a “house” in spiritual terms.

Restricting the discussion to the context of a man and woman in legitimate exclusive relationship with no one-flesh bonds outside their relationship this is the way Father intended things to be – a closed system.

When this house is in harmony or unity it will prosper, whether the man and woman are actively serving the Almighty or actively serving Satan or just muddling along in life with no real relationship with either the Almighty or Satan.

Immediately division enters this house it will start to fall (Matthew 12:25, Luke 11:17).  This does NOT have to be manifest division and strife, it can simply be the woman choosing to believe differently to the man, doing her own thing contrary to his will, etc.

Note that unless there is a formal contract (covenant) before the Court of Heaven in terms of which the man relinquishes his headship in favour of the woman then the man is ALWAYS the head and the division is ALWAYS with the woman.  The man can do things that make it more difficult for the woman to be in harmony but the responsibility for harmony always rests with the woman.  This is NOT being ugly or chauvinistic it is simply the way things are designed to be, the man is the head, the leader, the one who gives direction and the woman is the strong partner who supports her man – see Proverbs 31.

When a man and woman enter into sexual union it is vital that they understand that need for harmony, it is dangerous for a woman or man to enter into such union if they know there are fundamental differences of opinion.

If they are not serving the Almighty the impact may be limited but if they are seeking to serve the Almighty with any measure of dedication the forces of darkness will infiltrate every area of their lives and particularly their finances with hindering spirits (demons) whose job it is to interfere with and obstruct and prevent finances from reaching the family unit as this is the simplest way to cause the family to fall.

A woman who is not prepared to submit to her man should either remain single or only join herself to a man who is willing to allow her to lead the family and submit to her.

A man and woman in perfect harmony, resulting from a strong woman exercising her will to align herself with her man is an extremely powerful spiritual force on the earth with a magnifying effect which is dramatic.

9.  Love results from “making love”

It is vital to understand that sexual intercourse is called “making love” for a reason, it causes love to come into existence.

Love can come into existence through the relationship as a very deep form of soul tie but the deep spiritual form of love that comes about as a consequence of love making is a tangible spiritual force – it has a spiritual manifestation – it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:7 that love never dies, that it endures all things.

Once love has been created it CANNOT be put away or eliminated.

Love can be murdered through abuse but it will otherwise NEVER go away.

Even making love to a prostitute ONCE will cause love to come into existence together with memories that will never go away, they can be suppressed but they will not disappear.

There is NO prayer that can be prayed that will destroy love, Yah (the Almighty) IS love, it is fundamentally against His standards to destroy love, thus love should be given cautiously.

Under certain circumstances one can pray for the Almighty to seal the chamber of your heart where love for a particular person exists but otherwise it will always be there and be tangible.

Treachery by a person who is deeply loved or death or forcible separation is massively traumatic and has spiritual, emotional and physical consequences.

10.  Putting away – “divorce”

From the above it will become apparent that sexual intercourse should ONLY take place when a man and woman are totally committed to spending the rest of their lives together.

One night stands cause massive spiritual damage and hardening of the heart.

I hope in the near future to write a follow-up article on the grounds whereby the Court of Heaven will grant divorce and how to clean up after divorce or where one has been in a relationship which is in error and forbidden by the Court of Heaven.

All of these factors are designed to make the union between man and woman (or women) extremely powerful and enduring, Yah never had in mind that we would marry lightly and divorce lightly or that we would engage in casual sex or use prostitutes.

Conclusion

Sexual intercourse and the relationship and other spiritual forces that result from such intercourse are massively powerful with spiritual consequences which are extremely difficult to terminate or put aside.

These factors are designed to give rise to a powerful and enduring union that will endure the worst that life can throw at us and which, if correctly mobilized, will give rise to an intensely powerful and prosperous family unit that is able to make an impact on the earth way beyond its apparent capability.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

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Returning to the subject of divorce, what in fact were Malachi and Yahooshua preaching against?

The brutal truth?

Serial monogamy such as is practised today!

Starting about the time of Malachi, there was an increasing tendency for men to choose to have only one woman because the cost of maintaining a household with several women was significant and also many women were no longer playing the active financial role in the home as held up as an example in Proverbs 31.

It had become fashionable to put-away {divorce} a woman for “any reason” whereas the only basis of putting-away, as discussed in a recent article, was covenant breaking or treachery.

Under such circumstances putting-away a loyal woman is, in fact, an act of huge spiritual violence to the man and the woman because it ruptures the full spectrum of spiritual bonds that come into existence through a sexual union between a man and a woman as discussed a month or so ago.

Today, divorce frequently occurs for the same reasons.

The fact is that monogamy requires a huge amount from both the man and the woman, there is no potential to bring in an additional woman to compensate for gaps in the family capabilities and a woman must be a super-woman and a man a super-man.

Of course this does not happen in practice and therefore monogamy puts huge demands on both parties which in turn causes tensions and strife which results in degradation of the relationship ending in divorce.

As far as I can see there is NO easy answer to this.

Plural union of one man and several woman is simply not practical in our society today, the women are too indoctrinated against it and the men do not know how to handle it, it is a disaster so monogamy or fornication are defacto the only two options other than singleness, which is what many women are finding is the most palatable option.

In order to enter into a successful monogamous union it is vital that both parties are VERY selective about who they consider and that there is comprehensive discussion of priorities, expectations, etc BEFORE consummation.

Casual sex is NOT an option if you are a man or woman who fears Yah.

Conclusion

The true form of putting-away {divorce} that Malachi and Yahooshua preached against was serial monogamy as an alternative to a man covenanting with a number of women.

Monogamy is the only form of union open to men and women today and it should be entered into carefully and prayerfully BEFORE consummation.

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In a recent article (2012.06.09) I discussed all the spiritual connections that occur when a man and woman enter into a sexual relationship – these apply whether the relationship is a formal “marriage” or simply a sexual relationship ranging from a casual “one night stand” to a long term live in relationship which is effectively “marriage” in Yah’s sight provided that the woman is in a position to enter into a covenant relationship because she is free of all ties to any men in her past.

All of the items discussed come into effect anyway whether she is free to enter into covenant or not but if she is NOT free to covenant curses will come into effect as well which require repentance before prayers to cut the curses are offered.  Some of the other consequences of such a relationship will necessarily be of effect.

In reading what follows it is vital to have read the previous article first in order to understand how these things come into effect.

In particular it is vital to understand that a SINGLE act of sexual intercourse with orgasm by only one of the parties but particularly ejaculation in the vagina of the female by the male, will bring virtually all of these factors into existence.  The spiritual state change is INSTANTANEOUS and therefore most, if not all, of the prayers below are required.

To recap, a woman is legally in covenant union {marriage} before the Court of Heaven if she was truly a virgin at time of consummation (first penetration with male ejaculation), or a true widow, or truly separated {divorced} in the Court of Heaven.  Under any other circumstances the union was harlotry and must be repented of.  Pray, “Father Yah I come to you in the name of Yahooshua {Jesus} and I confess my sin of adultery and harlotry, I repent and I ask you to forgive me and to lead me in cutting off all consequences of my sin.  In particular, I ask you to cut off all curses that have come into play as a consequence of my adultery.”

If you have a covenant relationship that is legal in the sight of the Court of Heaven, that is the woman was a true virgin, true widow or truly divorced then you need to establish whether there is a legal basis for termination of the covenant {divorce}.

In general such a termination will NOT be given lightly and there will have to be clear-cut breach of the terms of the covenant, either Yah’s default covenant terms or the terms that were verbally agreed or agreed in writing BEFORE consummation.  Once consummation with male ejaculation in the vagina has taken place promises made after that point are NOT marriage covenant promises and breaking of such promises does NOT constitute a basis for divorce.

Where breach DOES occur Yah requires that we repeatedly notify the other party of breach and that we do everything we reasonably can do to work with them to remedy the breach.  In general a minimum of three notifications of breach are required and, wherever possible, these notifications should be in writing with clear statement of intention to divorce if the situation is not remedied.

Note that a divorce in a human court carries NO weight in the Court of Heaven.  The Court of Heaven has its own legal protocols and its own rules in terms of when a judgment for divorce will be handed down and how it will be executed.

It is up to any individual seeking divorce in the Court of Heaven to satisfy themselves that they have been granted that divorce by the Court BEFORE they action divorce in the earthly realm.

In some cases, such as the woman going with another man, the divorce is relatively clear cut although even then there should be formal calling to repentance and calling to return to the marital bed.

In other cases where there were terms to the marriage agreement that have been broken in the opinion of one of the parties they must petition Yah for clear guidance and clear signs until they are entirely satisfied that Yah has granted the divorce.

Note that if you proceed with a worldly divorce WITHOUT the consent of the Court of Heaven you are guilty of a grievous sin and that is in itself a form of adultery (spiritual treachery) as expounded by Yahooshua.

It is important to understand that the word translated adultery in the English is porneia in the Greek and corresponds to fornication which is effectively spiritual treachery – so a divorce can be granted on the grounds of spiritual treachery or betrayal NOT only sexual unfaithfulness by the woman.

A fundamental breach of the marital contract constitutes porneia or treachery.

In seeking guidance from Yah with regard to the possibility of divorce it is vital to come to Him with the correct heart attitude and be willing to be corrected and told to work harder at resolving the problem.

It is also important to seek clear confirmation – the nature of this will depend greatly on the point at which you are in your relationship with Him.

If you are a young believer with very little relationship with Him you can ask for repeated signs and guidance whereas if you have been walking with Him for years, know His ways and know His voice you will be expected to hear clearly and exercise your own discretion in reaching a decision.

Signs are given primarily for the less mature or for the mature in making radical changes in direction.  Refer the article “Essential principles in seeking a valid sign from the Almighty” at:

http://www.etimin.org/Important%20Messages/Essential%20Principles%20for%20Seeking%20a%20Sign%20from%20the%20Almighty%20v%2009_002.pdf

on the old website.

A suitable prayer might be “Father Yah, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua, it seems to me that my relationship with … has fundamentally broken down and that they have fundamentally broken covenant with me on the following grounds (list your complaints), I believe that this constitutes a basis for divorce but I do NOT want to divorce if it is against your will.  Accordingly I ask you for clear signs that you agree that the relationship has fundamentally broken down AND that you will grant me a divorce in the Court of Heaven” … pray whatever else you might have on your heart.

Note that if you have a sloppy covenant or no covenant agreement at all you have very limited basis for divorce.

By no covenant agreement I mean that you met and had sex and did not have any discussion about a long term relationship or terms.  The covenant that came into effect at the moment that he ejaculated in her vagina is therefore according exclusively to Yah’s standard covenant terms:

1. Woman you are to be a helpmeet, that is a helper, meet, suitable, conformed to your man;
2. Man you are to be head to and cover your woman;
3. Man love your woman as Yahooshua did and gave his life for the body of believers;
4. Woman be subject to your man in everything as Yahooshua was subject to the authorities in his time who falsely accused him, beat him and put him to death;
5. Man teach your woman at home;
6. Woman engage in commerce and industry together with your man or alongside your man or in conjunction with your man to the mutual benefit of your house.

These terms are subject to variation IF you have a formal agreement.  Such a formal agreement can totally reverse the standards of Yah’s covenant and make the man subject to the woman if that is what you choose or make neither subject to the other or anything else that takes your fancy.  Know only that those terms will form the basis of any pleading for divorce in the Court of Heaven so be willing to stand by them.

By sloppy terms I mean the pretty words that many couples concoct for their wedding day, sometimes based on nice words from their Shepherd {Pastor}, sometimes from some book they have read or a nice, pretty sounding email someone sent them.  Whatever you recited in church or in front of the magistrate, subject only to the man not having ejaculated in the woman’s vagina prior to that moment, will be binding in the Court of Heaven.  Such sloppy vows can totally nullify Yah’s default terms AND create a situation in which it is almost impossible for the Court of Heaven to find grounds for divorce.  In such cases you can only appeal for mercy or live the rest of your life in bondage to your sloppy promises.

The preferred state of affairs is that you clearly discuss the terms of your covenant WELL BEFORE you consummate, preferably put them in writing, give both parties time to consider them and discuss them and ensure that there is formal acceptance of those terms prior to consummation.  In that case whatever documents, be they emails, sms’s (mobile phone text messages) or formal written documents or simply explicitly discussed terms that were accepted prior to consummation WILL form the basis of any petition for divorce whether the acceptance was verbal or written – remember that ALL words are recorded in the Court of Heaven and whether you remember what you said or did or not the Court has total recall of every single word you spoke and wrote and will hold you accountable – remember that it is written “by your words you shall be judged”.

Such a formal agreement may open up broader terms for divorce.

The following sections discuss how to deal with the spiritual components that come into being in a sexual union between a man and a woman as discussed in the previous article:

Soul ties can be cut by a simple prayer “Father Yah, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua and ask you to cut all soul ties that exist between me and … and I ask you to seal and heal all points of spiritual connection”.  Technically you could pray “I speak to all soul ties between me and … and I sever them now in the name of Yahooshua and I speak to all points of spiritual connection and tell you to be sealed and healed in the name of Yahooshua”, I prefer to petition Yah in matters such as this.

Soul ties are straightforward.

Memories are a different matter.  They comprise a chemical pattern imprinted in your brain and a corresponding pattern in your spirit.

You can try and force yourself to forget those memories in your own strength but that will likely result in depression, forgetfulness and other negative consequences.

Alternatively you can pray “Father Yah, I ask you in the name of Yahooshua, to seal up all memories that I have with regard to …”

You will still have to work at it, memories will tend to surface at times, demons in the air around you will bring back memories to try and distract you and trip you up, etc – any time that happens pray the above prayer again and shift gear to think about other things trusting that Yah has heard your prayer.

Sexual attraction and desire may remain even after the relationship has irrevocably broken down as a consequence of broken covenant terms.

It will certainly remain strong until most of the items covered in this document have been dealt with, so you might pray about this early on but will probably have to pray it at intervals as you work through the following prayers and even after you have worked through everything may need to pray again from time to time.  Much in the same way as dealing with memories.

You can pray “Father Yah, I ask you in the name of Yahooshua to cut off all sexual attraction and desire between me and …  I ask you also to seal up all sexual memories and attraction that cannot be cut off so that I will no longer think of … sexually and no longer desire them.”

Note that having prayed such prayers it is advisable to avoid contact with that person if at all possible.  At some level the underlying desire will tend to draw you back together.

Note that sexual desire, sexual attraction and sexual chemistry can get one into a lot of trouble.  It is quite possible to develop sexual desire for someone who is entirely unsuitable as a covenant partner.  You can pray “Father, in the name of Yahooshua I ask you to close down my sexual desire until it is time to consummate a covenant with the person you choose for me and we have taken all necessary measures to ensure that we are fully conversant with the expectations of the other person and they have done the same and that we are certain that it is the right time in your sight for consummation to occur.”

Refer notes further down, if you are a woman serving Yah finding a man is very difficult, if you are a man, although there are many women many are not suitable.

       

Spirit to spirit adhesion can be cut by praying “Father Yah, I ask you in the name of Yahooshua to cut off all spirit to spirit connection between myself and …”

As a further measure I recommend that at the right time -- after you have worked through this entire document for the first time AND after you are no longer in constant contact with the person as in they are no longer living in the same dwelling as you – that you symbolically shave your entire body to cut off all spiritual connections.  This is a powerful spiritual “prophetic” act in any case for general spiritual cleansing even when it is not associated with divorce.

Take a safety razor – you do NOT need to physically shave, simply move the razor lightly over your entire body and pray as you do so “Father, Yah, as I pass this razor over my body I pray that you will cut off all spiritual ties and cleanse me of all spiritual contamination that has resulted from events in my life to date.  I ask you to leave intact ONLY those spiritual elements that are according to your will and pleasing in your sight” -- pray appropriately with regard to each part of your body and “shave” systematically.

You might do this in conjunction with a three day fast – shave on the first day at the start and again at the end of the fast.

If you have come out of Satanism or been in contact with someone who is involved in Satanism this prayer and symbolic action becomes much more important.

In extreme cases you might shave most or all of your body.  In general I would recommend that you do NOT shave your head and your eyebrows.  In the case of a woman DEFINITELY do NOT shave your head because it is written that the hair of the woman is her crowning glory but in the case of a man it is quite customary for him to shave his head as an act of penance and to seek cleansing – it depends on how serious you are about getting cleansed of all spiritual defilement.

If you have pins and other Satanic objects or Satanic tattoos or even any tattoos at all I strongly recommend that you do this irrespective of your situation with the man or woman in your life with regard to ALL areas of your body where there are pins, tattoos or other similar demonic objects – pray, “Father Yah, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua and ask you to cut off ALL assignments, associations and connections associated with these pins, tattoos, …, etc as I pass this razor over them” – pray in more detail as appropriate to each tattoo, area of pin embedment, etc.

Following this you might immerse three times totally but I would recommend that you work through all the items in this document before you do this – or do it several times.

In considering triple immersion it is important to recognize that immersion is a ROUTINE rite prescribed repeatedly in Leviticus (“bathe” = immersion in a body of clean water) and that in the so-called New Testament there are two immersions, the immersion of Yahoochanan the immerser (John the Baptist) following repentance from sin and the immersion administered by Shaul {Paul} and others associated with entry into the kingdom and immersion in the Spirit of Yah evidenced by the gift of speaking in unknown tongues in several instances.

There are other documents on the ETI websites which discuss triple immersion in more detail.  It was given to me by Yah about ten years ago and every time I have used it there have been powerful consequences.

You can immerse with someone with the appropriate anointing to pray with you and immerse you or immerse with you or you can do it on your own.  You can immerse in a bath tub but strictly speaking you should immerse in a body of water of sufficient extent that you can immerse your ENTIRE body at once.

The first immersion is for cleansing from sin, pray “Father Yah, in the name of Yahooshua I ask you that as I go under the water that you cleanse me from the consequences of all my sin and wash away all contamination” – hold your nose and submerge completely, take your time, some people actually feel a spiritual cleansing taking place when they do this, others experience other things, I once had a large demonic sphinx fly off the property at the end of the swimming pool as four of us immersed together.

The second immersion is for a deeper infilling of Yah’s Spirit (assuming you have had an infilling previously else this can be done for a first infilling), pray “Father Yah, in the name of Yahooshua I ask that as I go under the water for the second time you will fill me with your Spirit (if you have never been filled with His Spirit) or fill me with your Spirit to an even greater extent” (if you are already Spirit filled) – I once did this with a Satanist killer that Yah had just used me to bring to repentance and he said afterwards that despite the fact that it was a freezing cold day and the swimming pool was bitterly cold he felt an amazing warmth spread over his entire body.

The third immersion is to draw you deeper into the Kingdom of Yah, pray “Father Yah, in the name of Yahooshua I ask that as I go under the water for the third time that you will immerse me deeper into your Kingdom” – when I immersed the Satanist I mentioned above for the third time he had a vision of the gates of Heaven opening for him.  When I did this for the first time with a group of three others Yahooshua appeared in the spirit and walked down into the water with us with his arms outstretched towards us.

I have undertaken symbolic shaving followed by triple immersion on a number of occasions since the incidents referred to above and have done this with others on a few other occasions, the experience, particularly the first time, is frequently powerful.  This is very important if you are coming out of defiled relationships or a defiled marriage.

You may need to pass the razor symbolically over your tongue if things have been said by you that should NOT have been said.

If you have been involved in a defiled sexual relationship it is particularly important that you pass the razor over your entire sexual area and you might want to consider physically shaving your pubic area praying as you do “Father Yah, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua and as I shave myself I ask you to cleanse my pubic area of all spiritual contamination resulting from my relationship with …” -- name all names that are relevant

Some aspects of covenant promises and vows were discussed in the introduction.

It is important to understand that every promise, vow or oath creates a spiritual link between the parties making that promise.  This link has spiritual substance in the spirit realm and in the spirit realm it looks like a physical link.

Depending on the nature of the promise, vow or oath and the severity of it and the extent to which reliance has been placed on it the breaking of that promise, vow or oath will have greater or smaller spiritual consequences.

If it is a lightly given and lightly received promise then the breaking of it will have little consequence in the spirit realm.  However, if it is a major promise that has been restated repeatedly and particularly if the party receiving the promise has invested heavily in doing things in their lives based on trust in that promise the spiritual consequences of a broken promise, vow or oath can be huge.

I mentioned before that I was once in a situation in which a promise was broken, the woman concerned took off her engagement ring given by me and threw it against the wall – I distinctly heard something break in the spirit BEFORE the ring hit the wall and at that instant something inside me broke and we were NEVER able to heal that relationship despite several attempts at reconciliation.

In another recent incidence a woman broke a very strong promise that I had been invested in for nearly a year, had told people about our plans, had spent perhaps a hundred hours working to give effect to the agreement and then, when without warning the promise was unilaterally broken I was devastated to a point where I experienced massive spiritual, emotional and physical trauma to the point where I nearly physically collapsed and my anointing drained off of me.  For several weeks I struggled to survive and am only now getting to a point where I am strong enough to work my customary hours, have significantly reduced medication and feel anointed sufficiently to start writing again with any degree of confidence and energy.

When such a promise, vow or oath is broken, unless there is massive and very severe repentance and particularly if that promise, vow or oath is part of promises made BEFORE consummation the spiritual damage that will be caused will be very difficult to recover from and will almost certainly do unrecoverable damage to the relationship.  Where such a promise, vow or oath was part of the basis on which the decision to marry was based the breaking of it will frequently constitute the basis for a divorce decision in the Court of Heaven UNLESS the party on the receiving end of the treachery did something else to break trust first.

In such a case you will need to deal with resentment, unforgiveness, etc before you can be fully healed.

Given that there may be major on-going consequences it may take time for you to reach a position of full forgiveness.

You can, however, commence praying and pray repeatedly “Father Yah, in the name of Yahooshua I ask you to heal me of the hurt that this treachery has caused, I ask you to heal my spirit, my soul, my emotions and my body.”  Note that in the case of major betrayal the consequences may at some level be irreversible and only partial healing may occur – for example massive trauma can result in accelerated physical and mental ageing which is irreversible.

Restoring trust after such a situation is very difficult and may prove impossible unless the guilty party shows extreme remorse and intense repentance and works hard to restore the relationship to its former status – if the other party is unrepentant then it is my understanding that provided the promise, vow or oath that has been broken was made before consummation AND was a fundamental consideration in choosing to consummate such treachery constitutes a basis for divorce.  If treachery relates to something that was not part of the marriage covenant it may require much more onerous consideration before it constitutes a basis for divorce.

When a man and a woman who have had intercourse where the woman was free to enter into covenant in order to divorce the aggrieved party must petition to be released from the terms of the covenant UNLESS the formal marriage agreement cut across and nullified some or all of Yah’s default terms.

The man should pray “Father Yah, in the name of Yahooshua I ask you to release me from all responsibility for …, I ask you to release me from being her covering, I ask you to release me from having to teach her, I ask you to release me from being responsible to her sin in obedience to me and I ask you to release me in every other way possible of my obligations to her in terms of your standard covenant terms.  Father, I ask you to sever the covenant totally at my side and at hers and to cancel out all covenant vows, promises and oaths associated with the union.”

The woman should pray “Father Yah, in the name of Yahooshua I ask you to release me from all responsibility to …, I ask you to release me from being under his covering, I ask you to release me from having to submit to him and learn from him, I ask you to release me from having to align myself with him and from being engaged in commerce and industry together with him or alongside him to the mutual benefit of our joint house and I ask you to release me in every other way possible of my obligations to him in terms of your standard covenant terms.  Father, I ask you to sever the covenant totally at my side and at his and to cancel out all covenant vows, promises and oaths associated with the union.”

Note that where a promise was made in conjunction with taking so-called communion – the covenant bread and wine – the party breaking covenant may be subject to a death sentence in the Court of Heaven, possibly in this life but certainly in the life to come unless they come to deep repentance.

Note that trust is like a promise, vow or oath, it is a spiritual phenomenon which once broken is very difficult to repair – pray “Father Yah I ask you in the name of Yahooshua to teach me to trust … again” IF you are trying to heal the relationship, coupled with “Father Yah, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua and ask you to heal the hurts caused by this treachery and ask you to help me rebuild the relationship”.

As stated previously the one-flesh bond is a spiritual connection between the spirits of the man and woman that comes into existence the moment one of them experiences orgasm and releases a spurt of their spirit in such a way that that spurt can connect with and bind to the other person.

A one-flesh bond can be formed by using the hand or mouth or other part of the body to bring the other person to orgasm as well as during conventional sexual intercourse with vaginal penetration.

It can even be formed in a very limited and weak fashion by focusing on a photograph while masturbating to climax or even while thinking of a person while masturbating to climax – this is designed to allow a man and woman in sexual covenant to connect spiritually when they are separated but it will work with all forms of pornography and fornication – see the article on pornography for more information.

If one-flesh bonds have been formed in adulterous situations, in other words between a man and a woman who are NOT free to enter into life covenant then those bonds are the consequence of sin and require sincere repentance BEFORE you can request that they are cut.  One flesh bonds will also form between people of the same gender and also with animals.

In considering the one-flesh bond it is vital to understand that this is a bond given by Yah, it is NOT demonic or satanic and we, as human beings, do NOT have the authority to break it – so prayers like “I speak to this one flesh bond in the name of Yahooshua and I cut you now” are erroneous, presumptuous , foolish and powerless – you do NOT have the authority and therefore the prayer is of no effect.

In the case of reckless one-flesh bonds resulting from masturbation in conjunction with pornography, inappropriate fantasies, inappropriate photographs and inappropriate sexual connections such as with prostitutes, heavy petting and sex with women who are not free to marry the prayer is basically the same “Father I come to you in the name of Yahooshua, I repent of my sin of … (name all that applies) and I ask for your mercy with regard to the one-flesh bonds that have come into existence and ask you to cut them at my end and at the other end and to heal my spirit and the spirit of the other person/s of the wounds caused by cutting the one-flesh bond/s”.

In the above prayer I am taking it as a given that the person praying the prayer has the legal right in the Court of Heaven to pray that prayer – in other words that the one-flesh bond/s were illegal.

In the case of divorce where the one-flesh bond is legal it is vital to FIRST establish if the divorce has been granted as discussed in the introduction so there is first a prayer to ask for permission to divorce.

There is then a letter of divorce – note that technically Deuteronomy 24 only makes provision for the man to divorce the woman, not the other way round, although it is possible for Yah to cause an unsuitable man to divorce his woman.  Where a woman is legally joined to a man who is treating her badly she needs special mercy from Yah in order to receive a divorce and this is NOT always given, particularly if the default covenant terms are in place – remember that 1 Peter 3:1 says that women should submit to their man in the same way that Yahooshua submitted to them that falsely accused, beat him, tortured him and murdered him so in the Court of Heaven the grounds for divorce for a woman are limited to an appeal for mercy.

A woman who is being badly treated should do everything she can to comply with her covenant terms and Yah’s default covenant terms while at the same time asking Yah to help her to cope and asking Yah to deal with the situation in whatever manner he sees fit.  Sometimes, a consequence of such a prayer prayed in submission to Yah’s commandments will result in the death of the man.  In other situations he may come to repentance and a knowledge of Yah and submission to Yah, as it is written that the man “may be won without a word”.

A woman who is truly a virgin, widow or fully formally divorced in the Court of Heaven should NOT join herself to a man unless she is absolutely certain he is the right man AND is prepared to submit to him in everything – this includes his wrong behaviour, his drinking, his whoring, his false doctrine, his beatings, his … -- whatever he does that you do not like, even if he goes into Satanism you have to submit to him unless Yah clearly takes you out.

There are many Christians today who will tell you that this is NOT the case, I have it clearly that Yah says it IS the case.  Do NOT divorce on another person’s say so UNLESS they confirm their opinion in writing and INDEMNIFY you against judgment if their opinion is incorrect – unless they are willing to burn in the Lake of Fire which is the second death for giving you their opinion and persuading you to follow their opinion do NOT follow their opinion – my name on the bottom of this article indicates that I take responsibility for what is written here and ask Yah to judge me severely and correct me harshly if I am out of line – notwithstanding this you should take responsibility for what you pray and act in accordance with your own conviction – YOU will be judged for ALL your actions, those who lead you astray will ALSO be judged but that will NOT indemnify you from judgment UNLESS they actively state that they are willing to stand by the consequences of their counsel to you.

In the case of a man and woman who are legally joined in the sight of the Court of Heaven there is NO recourse UNLESS covenant is broken and then ONLY the person who has been wronged has the right to pray.

If you have betrayed your spouse and been kicked out of the house YOU do NOT have the authority to pray for the one-flesh bond to be broken, ONLY the aggrieved party has the right to pray.

In this case the prayer would be of the following form: “Father, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua, I believe with all my heart that you have consented to my divorcing …, I acknowledge that I do NOT have the authority to cut the one flesh-bond, accordingly I ask you for your mercy and grace and ask you in your mercy to cut the one-flesh bond at my end and at hers /  his and to heal up the wounds in our respective spirits”

If you are NOT sure you want it cut it will not be cut, you must be absolutely certain that you want it cut BEFORE you pray AND have legal sanction.

You must pray for all illegitimate one-flesh bonds, etc to be cut BEFORE you pray for the associated demons to leave.

Demons will ONLY leave once all legal right has been removed.

Accordingly, all sin associated with illegitimate one-flesh bonds must be sincerely repented of and dealt with BEFORE praying the following prayer.

If the one-flesh bond remains in place the demons will simply transfer back through the one-flesh bond so in each instance it must be cut first, the following prayer is ONLY of relevance once the one-flesh bond and associated items are dealt with, so deliverance should take place quite late in the sanctification process and may have to take place repeatedly.  In order to get fully clear you may need to go through the entire spectrum of prayers in this document itterratively, that is several times, before you will have dealt with everything that is required to get every single demon to leave.

If you are a novice with regard to deliverance you may need the ministry of a much more experienced believer with an anointing for deliverance.

In the case of divorce you MUST have a legal divorce in the Court of Heaven BEFORE prayer against demons associated with the marital one-flesh bond will be effective.

For the situations where the above conditions are satisfied pray as follows:

“Father I come to you in the name of Yahooshua and in the name of Yahooshua I speak to all demons that have transferred to me as a consequence of my sexual contact with … (name person/s involved), I bind you now in the name of Yahooshua, I command you to leave me and to go where Father Yah sends you in the name of Yahooshua, Father I ask you to heal my spirit of all wounds and hurts caused by the presence of these demons and to seal up all thoughts and memories associated with what these demons have spoken to me”.

The moment a one-flesh bond is cut the rebellion and disharmony of the other party will be separated from the house concerned and things should improve and conversely all harmony effects will be lost so if disharmony was not the issue things may deteriorate.

You could pray “Father I divorce … and ask you to terminate all spiritual consequences of my union with them both positive and negative”.

I stress that this prayer will ONLY be effective IF the one-flesh bond is cut.

If it is not cut because a divorce is in process it is sometimes possible to really humble yourself and pray for mercy and finances but realize that you will probably end up having to quote extremely low prices in order to get business until your house either comes into harmony or divorce is granted and executed.

Note that a legal divorce is NOT required in order for there to be a divorce in heaven.  Once you are absolutely certain that the Court of Heaven has granted you the divorce then you can pray for divorce and issue the other party a “writ of divorce” a letter setting out the reasons for the divorce.  Where the parties are legally married the writ must include a statement that a legal divorce will be applied for unless the legal divorce is in process at the time the writ is served.

Once the divorce has been granted in heaven the parties concerned are free to enter into whatever actions they consider appropriate to find a new partner, there is no requirement to wait for a legal divorce although in many cases it may be advisable.

It is vital to understand that sexual intercourse is called “making love” for a reason, it causes love to come into existence and love never dies, it can be murdered through rebellion and bad behaviour but you cannot simply decide to terminate love.

Yah is love, He will NOT terminate love.

All you can do is to request mercy and ask Him to help you to seal up the love you have for the other party.

Note that “I don’t love you anymore” may be valid in worldly terms but will probably only be valid to a point even in the most acrimonious divorce, “I do not love you as much as I used to” is more likely to be correct and note that loss or diminishing of love is NOT a basis for a divorce in the Court of Heaven – there MUST be a breach of covenant (breach of contract).

Once a divorce has been granted in the Court of Heaven you can pray along the following lines “Father, I ask you to seal up the chamber of my heart that contains my love for …, help me to keep that chamber closed, to seal up the memories and heal the hurts and help me to move on with my life without constant memories of …”

The subject of divorce has been dealt with throughout this article, in summary there are only very specific breach of covenant type charges that are valid in the Court of Heaven and specific prayers that need to be prayed.

These are all addressed elsewhere in this article.

In conjunction with the symbolic or actual shaving and the triple immersion there are further spiritual measures that can be taken to clean up after divorce or after termination of illegitimate sexual contact.

You should take the bread and wine at appropriate intervals throughout the processes described above, refer prayers in other articles.

You might also embark on a one day or three day complete or near complete fast in association with cutting off a major relationship, three days in particular where you think there may have been witchcraft involved – refer other articles on Fasting – only if your health permits and you are sure Yah has indicated what you are proposing is appropriate.

The measures described below can ALSO be undertaken at ANY time as an act of cleansing and drawing closer to Yah.

They can be done at two levels, the level described in Leviticus 14 or by going the full distance, which is what I recommend.

The simple route is to take some grape juice or wine, pray over it to have it represent the blood of the covenant “Father, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua and I ask that this grape juice will represent the blood of the covenant” and apply it to your right ear lobe, right thumb and right big toe praying as you do “Father as I anoint my ear I pray that you will cleanse my ears from all wrong things that I have heard and close my ears to what is wrong and open my ears to hear you clearly and to clearly hear what you want me to hear”.

Apply it to your right thumb and pray “Father, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua and I ask that you will cleanse my hands from all wrong they have done, from all wrong that I have written or contracted and that you will cleanse my hand and guide me that in future I will write only what you want me to write and contract only what you want me to contract”.

Apply it to the big toe on the right foot and pray “Father, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua that you will cleanse my feet of all wrong turnings I have taken and all wrong places I have been, remove all contamination, I ask you to guide my walk from now on that I will only go where you want me to go”.

As an extension you can anoint your forehead and pray about your thoughts and you can anoint your tongue and pray about the words that you utter and anoint your right eyelid and pray about what you look at and see – “close my eyes to what you do NOT want me to see and open my eyes to what you DO want me to see”.

If you are willing to really “go for it” you can take a large plastic mug or other container of grape juice, get in a shower or other suitable area and rub and pour the grape juice ALL over your entire body praying as appropriate – I usually start by pouring some over my head and work down to the soles of my feet.  It is advisable to stand on a towel as the average shower or other hard surface can become quite slippery.  Particularly in the case of cleansing after divorce or after fornication or other sexual sin ensure that your sexual organ is thoroughly anointed and pray “Father, I ask you in the name of Yahooshua that you will cleanse my sexual organ form all contamination and all connections from … and seal my sexual organ that I will only ever use in in ways that are pleasing to you”.  When you have anointed your whole body pour the remainder of the container over your head and again ask for cleansing and setting apart of your body for Yah’s service.

If you want to take the above to its logical conclusion BEFORE you do the anointing with grape juice you will symbolically or actually shave your entire body (leaving the hair and eyebrows if a woman and leaving the eye brows if a man – IF you are willing to go all out – go as far as you are willing to go), then immerse three times as above on the first day, then anoint with grape juice totally as above and then anoint with oil totally as discussed below AND do this on day one, then the seventh day from the first time and then the eighth day from the first day.  It is up to you what extent you go to but I believe that IF you are really intent on going all out for Yah you should go all out with this – full tilt would be to do an eight day fast – water only if you are willing to go that far concurrently with this or three days water only and then the balance only with vegetables or broth.

Once you have anointed yourself with grape juice at whatever level you chose anoint with oil at the same level – take some Olive Oil and pray “Father I ask that this oil will represent the oil of Your Spirit and that you will fill me with your Spirit and draw me closer to you as I anoint myself”.

As a minimum anoint first your right ear lobe, ask to hear Yah’s voice clearly, your right thumb, ask to write and contract led by Yah’s Spirit and your right big toe, ask to walk led by Yah’s Spirit.

Optionally anoint your forehead – have the mind of the anointing of Yah, right eye-lid see by Yah’s Spirit, see only what He wants you to see, see in the spirit realm, tongue – speak only what He wants you to speak by His Spirit, sexual organs that your sexual activity will be led by His Spirit and you will only enter into sexual activities as He desires for you.

If you really want to go all out then anoint your whole body with the same oil praying appropriately starting by pouring some on your head and ending by pouring the entire remainder over your head – vital that you stand on a towel, the floor WILL get very slippery and best to do this in a shower – gets quite messy, splashes all over the place.  Use a plastic container, it is easy to drop as your hands get very oily – only oil the hand holding the container when you have completed the process.

You may NOT feel anything as you do this but you might also be surprised about what happens when you do it.

Again, if you really want to go all out combine this with an eight day fast and anoint with oil on the first, seventh and eighth days.

If you do all the above you will have the best possible prospect of putting the old relationship or relationships behind you and of making a new start in a closer relationship with Yah AND able to remain single until such time as you find the right partner.

Note that IF you are a woman and reasonably close to Yah there are hardly any men available (refer previous articles on this) and you may have to choose celibacy for life – do NOT join yourself sexually to a man that is weaker in relationship with Yah than you are – you MUST be able to look UP to your man and see Yah through your man.

If you are a man, there are many more suitable women available BUT they must also be suitable in secular life – you are seeking a helpmeet, a Proverbs 31 woman, a woman who will conform to you, accept your leadership, who is a good match to you spiritually and in your business /  career and your home and with your minor children if you have any – there are many who seem suitable who on getting to know them more closely are entirely unsuitable – take your time and do NOT rush even though it IS Yah’s will that unless you are called to a very isolated prophetic office that you SHOULD be in covenant with a suitable woman – it is difficult for a man to stand without a woman, we were NOT designed to do this.

All of the factors discussed in the previous article are designed to make the union between man and woman (or women) extremely powerful and enduring, Yah never had in mind that we would marry lightly and divorce lightly or that we would engage in casual sex or use prostitutes or pornography.  ALL of these factors must be dealt with in order to make a clean start and, in my experience, ALL the above prayers should be prayed and all the above spiritual prophetic acts should be undertaken in order to clean up after a failed marriage or after contamination by unwise sexual activity.

Conclusion

Cleaning up from legacy sexual contact requires commitment and comprehensive spiritual treatment in order to FULLY put such sexual activity fully behind you and is vital before you seek a new relationship.

 

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