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Following is correspondence with a single woman believer that has a bearing on the content of this page

Some of the specifics are unique to the situation but Father says that there are a significant number of believing women in a similar situation, so please read and discard that which is NOT applicable

From: James Robertson
Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2014 2:52 PM
To: 'A'
Subject: A message from Father

 Hi A

 It was a pleasure to speak to you this morning

 Are you OK? – I have been impressed to pray for you several times in recent weeks

 Father says that I should tell you that:

 1.   He is well pleased with you

 2.   He desires to have a MUCH closer relationship with you

 3.   He encourages you to spend MUCH more time in private worship and private prayer and seeking to draw close to Him

 4.   He cautions you that there are seven times more anointed believing women on the planet than anointed believing men and that, accordingly, you should NOT be discouraged at NOT finding a suitable life partner AND that you should be cautious NOT to choose an unsuitable mate – He asks you if you would be willing to dedicate your life to Him and remain single regarding Father as your husband and trusting Him to cover you

 May the Almighty bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace

From: James Robertson
Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2014 3:35 PM
To: 'A'
Subject: RE: A message from Father

Hi A

You might like to have a look at Single Women believers are 7times more than men

Also at Men and Women and Covenant -- Isaiah 4.1

There is a LOT more information on the website since you and I met in March

May the Almighty bless you mightily and may you draw MUCH closer to Him

From: A
Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2014 3:47 PM
To: James
Subject: RE: A message from Father

Good afternoon,

Thank you so much for sending me this message (how did you know)

(it’s been a bit of a personal bump in the road between me and God)

 I’m just not fully understanding this passage below:

 If a believing woman is unable to cope sexually on her own she is better to enter into a life time sexual cohabitation partnership with another believing woman than to date and have occasional sex with unbelieving men or believing men who are NOT prepared to commit for life as she is then committing fornication with the corresponding penalties in the place of torment known as Hell

 Does it mean then that its ok to be a lesbian?

 Warmest regards

A

From: James Robertson
Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2014 11:26 PM
To: 'A'
Subject: RE: A message from Father

 Hi A

The huge challenge is that many young anointed believing women who are moderately close to Daddy find themselves under social pressure to marry and also have sexual needs

They end up dating but cannot find the right man

Or they think they have found the right man and their hormones get the better of them and they end up in bed only to realize it is NOT the right man and walk away

Now they are joined to an unbeliever or weak believer, they are losing their anointing and they are heading into fornication and major sin

OR they marry an unbeliever and end up being abused and their faith and relationship with Daddy is weakened or they fall away entirely or are badly hurt emotionally and sometimes physically

Sadly it is so that there are roughly 7 x more women than men in the body of anointed believers today, if you think about all the truly committed believers you know I think you will find that this is the case

So, what to do?

They are human beings, they need relationship

They generally have sexual needs which can get extremely pressing

Their options?

Go the route described above in which at best they will struggle to serve Daddy and at worst they will get badly hurt and fall away entirely which Daddy says is the case with the vast majority of them

OR

They can pray for Daddy to completely remove their sexual drive which is the preferred route but may NOT work 100%

Or they can resort to vibrators, etc but which, over time will probably drive them to a point of needing the real thing or at least a warm body to cuddle up to

Or they can take account of the fact that there is NO prohibition on sex between women

Sex between men is an abomination and the most fundamental form of adultery because it cuts across blood lines – that is why sex with a woman who is joined to another man is an abomination

Sex between women IS permissible but NOT on a loose promiscuous basis

The pages under Scriptural Definition of Marriage give a comprehensive analysis of the issues with regard to the relationship between men and women, sex, etc

I am NOT referring to lesbianism in the sense of a woman in a pseudo male role and another woman in a “submissive” female role

I am referring to two committed women believers who chose to covenant with one another for life, share their lives together and a fulfill their sexual needs together

I understand it IS radical and NOT socially acceptable

AND I have clearly heard Father say that it IS acceptable to Him and FAR better than fornication or the torment of unfulfilled sexuality or the consequences of marriage to an unbeliever

NOT easy I know but worth considering

I say again, the first prize is to pray for Father to completely remove one’s desire for sexual fulfillment but unless one has VERY STRONG FAITH for this it is unlikely that one has the faith to have it removed completely

I hope this helps

From: A
Sent: Thursday, July 24, 2014 7:14 AM
To: James
Subject: RE: A message from Father

 Good morning dr. Robertson,

I appreciate your taking the time to explain to me, as well as praying for me. You don’t know how much it means to me.

And yes, it is a bit of a sore point as I have had quite several relationships as you have described.  But I have never considered a relationship with a woman.

(I had a few offers in the past but….. it is a bit difficult to get my mind around the idea) it’s downright “grillerig” to even imagine. (forgive me I’m laughing quite hard) It is making me think of the one time a boyfriend took me to one of those “adult shops” as I have never been to one or watched any porn.  Instead of getting excited and aroused, I thought it was the funniest ever. Quite ridiculous.  Maybe I was brought up too old fashioned by my very religious granny. And accepted that it’s the way of a lady to live a good “normal and clean life”  - putting the emphasis on the word “Lady”

I still believe, quite strongly, that the Lord will send me a good husband, in His own time. In the meanwhile, I will be waiting and taking  your  message to heart,

Studying and drawing closer to Him.

Thank you for your kind message.

Warmest regards

From: James Robertson
Sent: Thursday, July 24, 2014 6:09 PM
To: 'a'
Subject: Further message from Father and supporting information

Dear A

To follow up on my previous emails

To reaffirm, Father IS well pleased with you AND He wants you to draw MUCH closer to Him

What follows IS going to challenge you because it is going to push the envelope on what you believe Father could say

If you get stuck, please see What if you disagree with me

As long as you are able to ask questions in order to gain understanding of my message we can continue talking

Should you come to a point where you do not believe that what I am saying is from Father I strongly recommend that you pray the prayers and undertake the fasts that are described on the page cited above

Note that I do NOT claim to be without error see the comments on this topic on the home page

IF you take my message to heart I recommend that you go on a program of fasts, refer Key Relationship Principles regarding Yah -- Fasting

In order to better understand what follows it is important to understand that you are 8,375^th closest to Father on earth today

You may regard that as a compliment, which in one sense it is

BUT, you are operating at only 5% of your potential in terms of where you COULD be  in your relationship with Father - see About Our Logo

And He wants you to seek to become MUCH closer to Him

In a very real sense I hope that you will also see that it is tragic that one who is so far from her true potential and in serious error ranks at 8,375 because it means that the rest are even weaker than you are

NOT being ugly, just brutally frank

As a frame of reference the male psalmist who is third closest to Father and is widely regarded as an anointed servant is operating at 30% of potential and in serious error and the second closest to Father is a Muslim Cleric in Iran who ALSO has serious error

At a point in her life your grandmother was fifth closest to Father and also had a lot of error

Father has asked me to mention these figures in order to CHALLENGE you to refocus your world view and your view of your relationship with Him

He wants you to become MUCH closer and operate at MUCH more of your potential

In this regard it is entirely possible for you to become closest on earth to Father IF that is what you want – it will require dedication, determination and sacrifice but that position IS always available to any believer who will do the hard yards – the man who is closest to Father is currently only operating at 70% of his potential

To help you see this in context, refer to THE Goal and Where are YOU going

Please take note of the various levels that you can aspire to

You could become a “wise steward”, that is the entry level -- wise stewards do NOT date unbelievers or weak believers or visit adult stores with such men

Once you have mastered this level you can work to become a “good and faithful servant” – keep Father’s Commandments and seek to do His will in every area of your life – this will require major adjustments – in some respects you are already here but in others you have a way to go

Once you have mastered this level you can work to become an “overcomer” and seek to gain mastery over sin in every area of your life and to be obedient in every possible way, see Key Relationship Principles regarding Yah -- Life Without Sin

Once you have mastered this level you will become a “friend” of the Almighty  --  Creator desires FRIENDS

That is the highest status that it is possible for a human being to attain, it may take you ten or twenty years to get there IF you put your back into it but there is NO greater reward on earth than to Hear Father tell you that you are His friend and to have Him confide in you, ask your opinion, tell you His most confidential information

To get there you need to let go of ALL your wrong church inspired errors, use Father’s correct name “Yah the eternally self-existing” - Creators Name is Yah, the Eternally Self Existing, cease using the blasphemous names God, The LORD, Jesus, Christ, observe the true Sabbaths, etc – see all the pages under Commandments, Seek Truth NOT Error, and many other pages on the website

How do I know this?

I have walked that road

Father first called me His friend in around 2001 after I had been on a series of fasts and separated myself from the world for about a year, see Milestones in my Relationship with Yah

DO you want this?

I believe you do

CAN you achieve it?

I am CERTAIN you can

Father is even more certain than I am – He knows you MUCH BETTER

There is a considerable amount on the website to help you get there IF you decide that you DO want to go there

There will be set-backs, there will be tears, there will be discouragement, there will be doubt, it is a difficult and lonely road BUT Daddy Yah is absolutely certain that YOU, A..., have the grit and the determination to go there

I urge you NOT to disappoint him

There WILL be tests – as you grow closer to Father He will ask you to do things that seem difficult or uncomfortable, NEVER say NO, just DO IT, He will help you to do it and will never test you beyond what you can endure, sometimes you will end up sobbing your heart out because you cannot go further but He WILL make a way

To return to more mundane issues

The sexual thing

Not sure exactly where you are on this but you need to be aware that if you hold hands with an unbeliever or a weak believer the anointing will drain out of you

If you French kiss and pet with such a person much MORE anointing will drain out of you

If you have sexual intercourse a MASS of very undesirable spiritual things happen, if you go all the way, you become one-flesh and are technically the covenant woman of the man you had sex with, if you have gone that far you need to repent, clean up and do what you need to do, if you have done this with several men then you need to wake up very quickly

If you have NOT gone that far I salute you, there are VERY few women your age who have managed to keep their virginity

Irrespective, be aware of the true implications of sexual intercourse, see Virgins Covenant lost

If you HAVE over stepped the mark and ARE one with a man or men see Men and Women and Family -- Separation of Man and Woman

See also South Africa --Afrikaners

Understand that now that you have received this information you will be WITHOUT EXCUSE if you enter into a sexual relationship with an unsuitable man in the future

NOW THE KICKER

There are seven times (7 x) more women than men in the body of anointed believers, given that a believing woman has to submit to her man and should therefore NEVER join herself to a man who is spiritually weaker than she is, that means there are approximately 1,046 men on the planet who are suitable spouses for A... today and IF you take Father’s call seriously and apply yourself to what He is calling you to do there will soon be VERY FEW suitable men

That said, of the 1,046 a significant number are from a social station that are NOT suitable for you, a significant number are intellectually NOT suitable for you --  you are a highly intelligent woman and Father has given you much wisdom and therefore you should only join yourself to a man who is intellectually at least your equal, AND many are too old for you and others are too young for you

Net effect is that Father says that there are 5 men on the planet who are currently suitable spouses for you and they are ALL taken

Father therefore encourages you to come to terms with this and consider what you will do:

1.   With deep intent ask Him to take away your desire for intimacy and closeness AND sex completely

2.   Make use of sex toys or whatever you need to do in order to deal with any sexual needs that may develop – you are still young, the need for sex and closeness becomes more intense as you grow older – this is unlikely to work

3.   Find a suitable woman with Father’s help and enter into life time covenant with her – I understand that this seems foreign and possibly even offensive, it is the harsh reality -- the day will almost certainly come if you try and stay single when you WILL fall for a man who will almost certainly be unsuitable – consider Kathryn Kuhlman who Father eventually asked to choose between Him and her husband, she chose Father, my wife waited for 28 years to meet me and was tripped up several times along the way and was only able to marry me because a number of highly anointed women close to Yah broke covenant or failed in other ways

You are an extremely attractive and sexy young woman, there are men who lust after you and that spiritual pressure will affect you

I counsel you to dress more modestly, intentionally or not your dress projects a message of one who is seeking a man

THE FORK IN THE ROAD

Father says that should you continue on the road you are currently traveling you WILL fall away from Him in the NOT too distant future

He does NOT want that

He therefore asks you please to take a deep and intentional decision to change direction and seek Him actively and consciously in ways far beyond anything you have done so far

To better understand the context to this, please read The REAL Contest and THE Trap

IF you decide to go ALL OUT for Father, please consider praying the prayers at Prayer

Become VERY selective in your choice of worship songs, some powerful songs at Worship

Be aware that wrong choices can see you for a considerable period of time in Hell, and that persistent sin will ultimately lead to you being rejected

Read the book on “Where will you spend eternity?” for some important guidelines

I say again, I recommend fasting, as a VITAL element of drawing close to Yah, now and regularly for the rest of your life

Understand that IF you heed this call you are embarking on a very lonely journey on which ONLY Daddy can be trusted and ONLY Daddy can lead you

Get on your knees before Him daily

Forswear any idolatry of the book (Bible) and turn to Father to lead you into all truth

Father has shown me that you have HUGE potential

He DEEPLY desires you to draw MUCH closer to Him

I encourage you to do whatever you have to do to make a quality decision and then go for it

You may find the article on immersion of relevance once you have made your decision 

If you require guidance I will do what I can to help you but your FIRST source of guidance should always be our loving Father in Heaven

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace

>>> CORRESPONDENCES STILL IN PROGRESS <<<

If you are a single believing woman who is at some level moderately close to Father I encourage you to take the above message as your own

If you are a believing woman married to an unbeliever, particularly if you are married to an unbeliever who abuses you I refer you to the page on divorce as it is probable that Father will desire you to divorce and thereafter the substance of this message applies to you too

If  you are unsure what to do  you are welcome to email me