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It will be apparent from the previous article that it is difficult to draw really close to Yah.

Some months ago I reported that Yah had stated that on earth today there were only about 5,000 anointed believers who were in any way at all making a difference on earth and that of these 5,000 only a very small number were making a real impact.

In the months since then I have had contact with a number of people who Yah has indicated are part of the 5,000 and it is alarming to realize how little most of us are doing for Yah in this age, myself included.

I find it distressing that I am doing so little and yet Yah says I am closer to Him than most, primarily because I am making a serious effort to walk in the revelation that I have with regard to the Ten Commandments and the true names, the Sabbaths, etc.  From this I infer that similar comments apply to most of this group.

Many of the 5,000 are not even getting those basics right – the names, Sabbaths, etc.

At this stage, overall, it is apparent that the forces of darkness are winning hands-down – even most of those who have been or are anointed and even most of those who are performing sign's and wonders are NOT part of the 5,000 because of critical errors in their knowledge {doctrine} around things like the names, etc with the result that while they think they are serving Yah as "God" they are actually serving Satan as mighty one (god).

Perhaps the most challenging statistic that I have been given is as follows:

1. Of the 5,000, 7 out of 8 are women.

2. Of the men, only two are single but have no intention of marrying and the rest (623) are in covenant {marriage} relationships.  Most of these men are in covenant with women who are NOT part of the 5,000 and many are being dragged down by this unequal yoking.

3. Of the women, half (2,187) are in covenant union {marriage} and the other half are single.  Most of those in covenant union are joined to men who are NOT part of the 5,000 and many are being dragged down by this unequal yoking.  Most of those men will NEVER form part of the 5,000.

4. Of the single women about half (1,094) have an aspiration of being in a life-time covenant union with a man and the other half have given up and dedicated their lives to serving Yah only.

5. By virtue of the statistics above, those women who are seeking a man will either give up or join themselves to a man who is almost certain to be unsuitable and who will draw them away from Yah – there are not many single men in the ranks of those who are just outside the 5,000 cutline either.

The challenge then, if you are one of the single women in the roughly 1,100 listed above who are seeking a man, and there are quite a few single women on this list, is what to do.

The obvious solution is provided in Isaiah 4:1 which states that in the last days seven women will cling to one man BUT, from harsh experience I have to tell you that the women of this age cannot share their man, no matter how anointed they are, no matter how certain they are that sharing is Yah's will they just cannot do it as a consequence of early childhood programming which makes a woman whose man goes to another woman a REALLY BAD person.  The deep seated toxic psychological responses are intense!

The best advice I can give if you are one of these women is to let go of your desire for a man, dedicate yourself totally to Yah and ask Yah to take away your sexual desire.  Instead, form a close friendship with one or more women who are also close to Yah and satisfy your need for companionship this way.

Conclusion

There is a major gender imbalance in the body of true believers today – there are FAR MORE women than men in this group characterized most dramatically by those who make up the 5,000 anointed believers who are having some impact on the forces of darkness.

Single women are advised to remain single and not seek a man and to ask Yah to remove their sexual desire.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

In the last few days I have become aware of a major challenge

Yah said a few days ago that there were only 100,000 believers worldwide who were having any impact at all and that the real battle on earth was being fought by 5,000 anointed ones

In my journey of seeking a life partner who is a highly anointed woman of Yah with a close walk with Him I have encountered a number of highly anointed women, one who Yah said was 180th closest to Him, another 123rd, another 72th and another 2nd

All expect Yah to provide a man who will perfectly meet their wants and needs, some are downright fussy, but they are entirely unaware of Isaiah 4:1 which says that in this day there will be seven times as many women as men in the body of true anointed believers

As I have mentioned before, the most superficial inspection will reveal anointed assemblies with up to ten times as many women as men in the body and my own experience is that there are many women who are seeking and finding there are very few suitable men around

At the same time it is important to remember that the man is the head of the woman as the anointed one {Yahooshua} is the head of the body of believers -- by implication this indicates that a woman should NOT join herself to a man who is less anointed than she is or is not as close to Yah as she is, how can she look up to the leadership of a man when she has to look away from Yah to look at him

The harsh reality of the above statistics are that of the 100,000 only 12,500 are men and of the 5,000 only 625 are men scattered over the ENTIRE world

What to do?

Well firstly, if you are a single anointed woman seeking a man and you find an anointed man who is as close to Father as you are or closer, I suggest you make a real effort not to let him go :)

OR settle for a life of celibacy -- which from what I can see may be the best course of action from a practical point of view -- Yah is your husband and devote yourself to serving Him

OR find a woman who has a man and is prepared to share in accordance with Isaiah 4:1, based on my own personal experience such women do not seem to exist such is the pervasive nature of Satan's lies about monogamy

OR settle for a man who is not as strong as her and potentially find herself in an abusive and destructive relationship which potentially causes her to fall away

If we assume that most of the eligible men are already married we find single anointed women potentially competing with hundreds and possibly thousands of others for the few men that are not married

The potential for harm to Yah's beloved daughters is huge!

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and grant you His peace.

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I keep encountering people who talk about "sex before marriage" as though there IS such a thing.

Fact is that before Daddy Yah there is either:

• Sexual intercourse with a virgin, widow or truly divorced woman which equals a lifetime covenant before Yah, which approximates this pagan thing we call marriage but can take place with many women to one man

• The same following some form of ceremony or public taking of vows, etc – which hardly ever happens today, generally the couple have intercourse before the ceremony

• Sexual intercourse with any other woman is adultery and if she has had multiple partners, fornication – the vast majority of legal / church marriages today – guaranteed a part in the lake of fire and brimstone which is the second death – where the vast majority of the population of the world are headed unless they are told the truth and come to repentance (and, by the way, a part in the lake of fire for the pastor or magistrate or other person who performs the ceremony and purports to stand in the place of Yah)

• That is it folks, NO other options

Conclusion

I hope this gives you clarity on the sex before marriage issue.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

I have received a number of inquiries recently, some relating to sexual issues and others relating to financial issues.

It is clear that most people do not understand that these issues are related and it is also clear that there is not much understanding of the power of the one flesh bond, the sexual bond that comes into existence as a consequence of sexual orgasm.

These principles affect almost everyone on the planet excluding only those who have been truly celibate for their ENTIRE lives.

There are a number of references to the one flesh bond which is first cited in Genesis 2:24 which speaks of a man cutting (cleaving) into the cleft of the woman and the two becoming one flesh.

This passage is cited in Matthew 19: 5 and 6 where Yahooshua speaks against divorce.

1 Corinthians 6:16 warns against becoming one flesh with a harlot through intercourse because the body is the temple of the Spirit of Yah.

Ephesians 5:31 and 32 speak of a great mystery and equate the one flesh bond with the infilling of human beings with the Spirit of Yah.

All of these passages give insight into the subject but the total subject is much more complex than is at first apparent.

It is also widely misunderstood; in particular a one flesh bond is NOT a soul tie although it appears that in some cases Yah in His mercy answers requests to cut the one flesh bond prayed using soul tie language.

In the sections that follow I will set out some critical things that just about every person on the planet needs to know and which in my experience just about all believers and followers of Yah are woefully ignorant of.

In its simplest form the one flesh bond comes into existence when a man and woman engage in sexual intercourse and the man experiences an orgasm and ejaculates.

When he ejaculates he not only squirts out semen but he squirts out a part of his spirit which flows up the channel provided in the core of the spirit of the woman and attaches to her spiritual heart.

This is an unbreakable bond that can only be broken under very specific circumstances with very specific prayers that are only effective under those circumstances.

Where the woman experiences an orgasm she also ejaculates of her spirit over the spirit of the man to attach to his heart in the same way.

In spiritual terms the one flesh bond is an infinitely elastic and extensible tie that will tie the man and woman together even if they are on opposite sides of the planet.

The more times either or both achieve orgasm the stronger the one flesh bond becomes until in the spirit realm there is NO distance between them and they are no longer John and Mary but John-and-Mary as one spiritual entity.

Where they experience an intense simultaneous orgasm the one flesh bond will grow rapidly but even the weakest orgasm that is hardly felt physically will establish or add to the one flesh bond.

In spiritual legal terms a life time covenant {marriage} comes into existence when a man penetrates a virgin with the shedding of blood in which case a blood covenant is formed or, in the absence of a hymen {virginity} when male ejaculation takes place and semen or even lubricant, which contains salt, is transferred to the woman in which case a salt covenant is formed.  The lubricant and ejaculate of the woman also contain salt.  Where both shedding of blood and exchange of fluids happens then both covenants are formed.

The use of a condom does NOT prevent a covenant being formed.

In addition, with first ejaculation by the man an unbreakable one flesh bond is formed and the man and woman are tied together for life whether they are permitted to join in the sight of Yah or not.

Any human being can form as many one flesh bonds as situations give rise to.

Thus if the woman is in adultery the one flesh bond is still formed.

If the woman is a harlot the one flesh bond is still formed.

If the man is already joined to another woman the one flesh bond is still formed.

Why is the one flesh bond important?

The following sections address a number of factors:

There is significant spiritual power associated when a man and woman have a one flesh bond.

If they are in a strictly exclusive (monogamous or polygynous) relationship where neither of them have ever formed a one flesh bond with anyone else or where the appropriate prayers have been prayed AND they are in deep harmony and agreement their prayers have a power and authority which is dramatic.

If they are not in harmony the damage can be intense.

However, this same power is available to two men who are one flesh with one another, or two women, or to a group of men and women who are all one flesh.

A group of people who are all one flesh are massively powerful spiritually if they are aligned and this is why Satanists and secret cults engage in partner swopping, orgies, etc to tap into this power.

Proverbs 12:4 identifies a phenomenon that it refers to as being LIKE rottenness in the bones caused by a contentious and fault finding woman {wife} who brings shame to her husband.

This spiritual phenomenon has a physical manifestation in terms of which the man feels terrible, weakened, angry, out of sorts.

Some wife beating results from women who do this to their man.

It is vital that there is a clear understanding of the role of man and woman in a covenant union and that both perform those roles properly, refer the article 2011.01.12 "Brother can you spare a dime?" for more discussion on this topic and the subject of financial lack.

The spiritual damage that results from an illegitimate one flesh bond or an unwise one flesh bond or from a man and woman who are not in harmony is huge.

If an anointed man or woman joins themselves to one who is not anointed the anointing will dissipate in the anointed one in order to flow into the one who is not anointed and there will be an averaging of the level of anointing.

Anointing is likened unto water – where there is a one flesh bond the anointing flows between the parties who are joined to reach the same level in each person.

If an anointed one joins themselves to one who is joined to others who are not anointed the anointing will drain out of them just like pulling the plug out of a bath of water – in moments they will lose all their spiritual power.

If an anointed one is joined to another and that other person joins themselves to another one the same effect will be achieved – this is one of the reasons why adultery is such a massive issue.

Note also that if a woman joins herself to another man, apart from her covenant man {husband} it is likely that a spirit of jealousy will come upon the man and he will become angry and irritable for reasons he cannot explain (Numbers 5).

So, if a man or woman is one flesh with one or more others who are one flesh with others they are joined into a spiritual network which will drain the anointing out of them and align them with all the evil that may be present in the others they are indirectly joined to.

Such sexual union only has to happen once for lasting damage to be done to an anointed one unless the one flesh bond is cut off.

In addition to the problems mentioned above an anointed one who is one flesh with others who are not living with them and not in agreement will experience financial and other problems.

Even if a man and woman who are exclusively one flesh with one another are not in perfect spiritual alignment and harmony they will suffer financial loss.

The MORE INTENSELY you are seeking to serve Yah the WORSE the problem will be, it works in the reverse direction because the forces of darkness know they can use this no matter what the right standing of your life with Yah in other areas – a divided house WILL FALL!

Hindering spirits will gain a legal right over their finances and obstruct income, cause business opportunities to go wrong and operate in all sorts of ways to cause financial and material loss.

Hindering spirits gain a right the moment a man and his woman or women are not in harmony with him – the moment they are pulling in different directions spiritually.

So, where a group of people who are one flesh and align themselves in the same direction will experience great spiritual power so a group of people – two or more – who are one flesh and are not in alignment will experience great spiritual weakness and loss.

I have been corresponding with a man who is a deeply committed believer who is one flesh with a woman who he deserted in his youth and who has joined herself to another man and he cannot understand why his finances are under attack.  Until he resolves the issues around the one flesh bond and either gains permission from Yah to cut the second woman off or she comes back under his covering and the tie with her new husband is cut off he will be operating under a financial curse and will suffer loss.

4.  How? – the not so obvious

So, the one flesh bond results from sexual intercourse between a man and a woman?

– easy to identify?

– not really

a one flesh bond will come into existence if a man has sexual congress with a man, if a woman has sexual congress with a woman, if a man or woman join themselves sexually to an animal and orgasm occurs

– well most of you would not do that so that is not a problem?

– is it?

A one flesh bond is formed if a woman's sexual organs are stimulated by hand or another body part and she climaxes against that hand or other body part and the same applies if a man ejaculates against a hand or other body part – includes oral sex AND mutual masturbation, and …

– so what about your little dalliance as a youth?

– or???

But that is NOT all

A one flesh bond can be formed by the two parties being in the same room and watching while one or both masturbate to orgasm

– a very weak one flesh bond will jump the space between them

And that is NOT all

If you engage in phone sex or think of the other person or look at a photograph and masturbate to orgasm a weak one flesh bond will jump the space between the person masturbating and the object of their fantasy or thoughts

So those of you who though you were doing OK coping with your sexual frustration by looking at pornography or fantasizing about the woman or man in that advert or at work or at … have a problem

Refer the article on pornography 2010.12.01 where the believer in question was shown that he had weak one flesh bonds with thousands of women he had fantasized about and masturbated to orgasm while looking at their photographs in pornographic magazines and over the Internet!

And every one of these weak ties will at some level drain the anointing, give Satanists and witches spiritual links into that person's life, etc.

You can be certain that if you are joined to someone who is not in lifetime covenant with you and they are joined to someone else you are almost certainly joined to every witch, warlock, wizard, witch-doctor and Satanist on the planet.

The consequences are huge and the damage is dramatic.

This one factor drastically reduces the power and effectiveness of the body of believers and joins Father Yah to the forces of darkness through His Spirit in contaminated believers.

But,

this is NOT the only damage, if a man is joined to a woman in a truly exclusive relationship but one of them gets into demonic oppression, demonic anger, fear, demonic jealousy, rebellion, etc they join themselves spiritually to the demons behind that act and the anointing will rush out of the family unit because the Spirit of Yah cannot coexist with the forces of Satan in the same spiritual body.

So, if you are a single believer you need to be very careful about who you join yourself to and, once you are joined, you need to be very careful what you each get involved in and what you do.

Sexual intercourse is a powerful force for good in the body of believers IF properly applied but it is a MASSIVE power for evil where believers do not know of the above issues and get into one or more of the above or have been involved in such things at some time in the past.

Genesis 2:24 is widely misunderstood.

It says the TWO shall become ONE

In other words 1 + 1 = 1

This is frequently misinterpreted to support monogamy in other words the man and woman are one and therefore there should only be or can only be one man and one woman.

It will be apparent from the above discussion that a man or woman can become one with any number of other spiritual beings because the mathematics is actually:

1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + … = 1

As many as join themselves together they all become one at some level in the spirit realm and so we see that barring people who have scrupulously kept themselves to a closed unit the rest of the world is in all likelihood joined to everyone else and are therefore at some level one.

So those who are serving Satan AND many believers are all one with one another – it is a tremendous mess and an abomination in the sight of Father Yah!

An extension of this point is that it is perfectly possible for one man to become one with a number of women in a closed family unit and create a very powerful spiritual unit, this is why families with several women when in perfect harmony are generally more prosperous than monogamous families.  BUT they must make sure there is NO OTHER SIN in their lives!

We glibly use the term "making love" to describe the act of sexual intercourse between a man and a woman and think nothing of it.

Reality is that when a man and woman engage in sexual intercourse (actually when any two human beings engage in sexual intercourse with caring, loving consent) LOVE is created.

1 Corinthians 13 makes it clear that this love will never die, it can only be murdered, so once one has made love to another that love will live for eternity unless it is systematically murdered through treachery, verbal and emotional abuse, physical abuse, etc.  This is why people remain in abusive relationships, the love is stronger than the compulsion to get out.

For this reason divorce (putting away) is an act of spiritual violence, it tears away one who is one flesh and it trashes the love that exists as a spiritual force between the man and woman UNLESS the marriage has truly been destroyed through treachery and there is nothing left.

Putting away just because it is not convenient is an act of massive spiritual violence and treachery.

Most people do not know about the existence of the one flesh bond but I find that when they have problems and I minister to them that the minute I describe the basic characteristics of the bond and how it is formed and the problems it brings they immediately recognize it.

Some people have some level of awareness and try and cut the one flesh bond by taking authority over it and commanding that it be cut, but they do NOT have that authority.

It is written that "what Yah has joined together let not man put asunder", this is an incorrect translation, the actual reality is "man is not able to put asunder".

Man has NO authority with regard to the one flesh bond.

Only Yah can cut the one flesh bond, either if there is a legal basis to cut it OR if in His Mercy and Grace he chooses to cut it.

And, the one requesting that it be cut needs to be absolutely in agreement with the request.  If they are shaky and are just asking for it to be cut because they have been told it is the right thing to do but deep down they do not want it cut then it will probably not be cut.

Thus, if a one flesh bond was formed through sin and there is true repentance it will probably be cut.

If there is real treachery by the other party then it may well be cut, but Yah is the final arbiter in this.

It may help to have someone who is experienced and has an anointing in this area to pray with you.

But, if you are a man and you took the virginity of a woman and then left her for another you are likely to find that you have a problem.  Yah will first require you to repent of your adultery (treachery) toward her by caused by  your breaking the relationship and He may require you to approach her or contact her, declare your willingness to do what is right by her and ask her to return to you – no matter what your existing wife or wives may think of the matter!

In most cases like this the woman will refuse to return and at that point Yah may well grant a formal divorce but it is a matter of faith to walk this out a step at a time until she is restored or Yah grants a divorce.

The same applies in reverse if you are a woman who gave your virginity to a man and you are now with another man, the correct procedure is to approach the man who took your virginity and ask him to do right by you.  If he refuses you are then free to ask Yah for a divorce but you, too, may need to walk a road with Yah on this no matter what your existing man may say.

Remember that if you are in adultery you WILL spend part or all of eternity in the lake of fire which is the second death (Revelation 21:8).

In both cases it may not be necessary to inform existing partners as in most cases the other party will refuse to return BUT you will have a bigger problem if Yah requires that they return and you have done the thing secretly.

I once ministered in a situation in which the woman had her virginity taken when she was 16 years old by a man who arranged for a hypnotist to hypnotize her, took her through a full wedding ceremony, white dress the lot, vows and consummation and knew nothing about it afterwards and married someone else.  When she was in her mid-forties and agonizing about getting divorced, Yah revealed to her in a series of visions what had happened and told her to return to her husband (the man who took her virginity under hypnosis!)

If you have done all that Yah has required of you and He has shown you that He WILL permit divorce the prayer is along the lines of:

"Father, I come to you in the name of Yahooshua, I declare that I have a one flesh bond with …………. and I ask you for mercy and ask you to cut the one flesh bond"

In cases of pornography and lust you must first confess your sin and repent with a broken spirit and a contrite heart.

In cases of heavy petting and other acts that were not full blown sexual intercourse, again confess your sin and repent with a broken spirit and a contrite heart.

In the case of true adultery, where the woman is joined to another man and the sex was illegal, or in the case of a prostitute, or in the case of a man with another man, confess your sin and repent with a broken spirit and a contrite heart.

There is NO prohibition on two women having sexual activities unless they are the women of different men, in such cases the same applies.

Where a relationship is with an unbeliever AND Yah has clearly shown you to get out then the same prayer applies.

In all the above cases also pray for soul ties to be cut off and for all vows and promises to be cancelled.

Where you have "made a mistake" there is NO provision for mistakes, if you had sex you had sex and there is a covenant in place, read Deuteronomy 22.  Your only recourse here is to go humbly before Yah but in my observation you are NOT likely to be granted a divorce UNLESS the other party point blank refuses to carry out their obligations as life covenant partner {husband or wife} in which case the blood will be on their hands.

Bottom line, do NOT enter into sexual covenant with anyone unless you are certain it is the right thing to do in the sight of Yah and do NOT engage in the use of pornography, casual sex, lusting after others, etc.

So, we see that sexual lovemaking is one of the most, in fact the most powerful act between a man and a woman.  When they are in life covenant it is beautiful and set-apart {sacred}.  Outside of that it is a massively dangerous spiritual act.

It is vital to understand that ANYTHING that is possible WITHIN that life covenant {marriage} relationship is permissible and undefiled, it is written in Hebrews 13:4 that the bed is undefiled.

It is entirely permissible to make love in any shape or form, to masturbate each other, to masturbate watching each other, to masturbate thinking of the other who is absent, to engage in sexual conversations and masturbate over the telephone when absent from one another, to masturbate looking at a photograph of the other.  Nothing prohibits any of these.

Oral sex within the relationship when skilfully performed is beautiful and entirely permissible.

Anal sex is not prohibited but only a few enjoy it.

Everything that is sexually possible between a man and woman or women within a closed committed Yah fearing covenant relationship is permitted.

EVERYTHING that is permitted WITHIN that union is PROHIBITED OUTSIDE that union.

There is NO GREY ZONE, masturbating or making love while thinking of the man or woman at work is OUT.

It is so that sexual love making is an art.

Satan understands this well, this is why Satan has appropriated all the skills relating to sexual love making and made them available in a context of fornication and adultery and, on the other hand, has put prudish demons on believers who then treat sex as something dirty to be performed on the same level as ablutions, preferably with the light out and no expressions of pleasure.

The result, when believers discover that sex can be pleasurable they generally discover this in the context of fornication and they then walk away from purity and set-apartness {holiness} and consort with the world and get into pornography, then lust, then playing around and finally full blown adultery when they COULD enjoy the full range of sexual pleasures WITHIN their covenant relationship.

I have been considering writing a detailed, frank and explicit article on sexual technique to be distributed on request only.  Please email me if you would like me to do this.

If you are in a covenant relationship I encourage you to learn how to enjoy sex to its full potential WITHIN your relationship, learn how to give and receive oral sex, put away all your inhibitions, send each other sexually explicit emails or text messages, talk about your sexual desire for the other on the phone when you are separated, etc.

You can have fabulous sex WITHIN your covenant relationship PROVIDED you both decide to do this.  Spend whole days making love.

In doing this you will build a strong one flesh bond and a sure house and you will find it easier to be in harmony and your house will prosper.

It is very difficult to argue with someone when you are making passionate love on a regular basis.

If you are single then you need to pray to Yah to remove your sex drive until you find the right partner and if you are a woman you need to refer to the article 2011.03.01 "The dilemma of the Isaiah 4:1 phenomenon" which discusses the harsh reality that there are approximately seven times more women than men in the body of true believers, as much as 10 to 1 in some assemblies and that therefore every single woman is competing literally with thousands of others for every available man in monogamy.  The best option in such cases is to pray to Yah to remove your sex drive and form some good friendships instead.

Conclusion

I hope this gives you some insight into the power of the one flesh bond and its implications, if you have a need for personal ministry in this area please email me.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.

I continue to see the dilemma of the Isaiah 4:1 phenomenon all around me so it seems appropriate to write something about it.

Isaiah 4:1 states "AND IN that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread and provide our own apparel; only let us be called by your name to take away our reproach [of being unmarried]." Amplified Bible

What is this saying?

What it says, literally.

In the age being referred to seven women will seek to marry one man!

"but that is against the word" I hear many cry.

Not so.

Yah created women to be virgins and men to be able to take the virginity of more than one woman and virginity can only be taken once so it is clearly apparent that from the beginning Yah created men and women so that more than one woman can covenant with one man and that this is good and perfect in His sight!

See the detailed analysis in the books on marriage on my website.

Satan has lied because there is great spiritual power in a believing man covenanted with {married to} a number of believing women

If you read the rest of Isaiah 4 and also Isaiah 3 you will notice that this prophecy is referring to an age that looks very similar to the present age.

Yah showed me about fifteen years ago that it indeed refers to the age in which we live today.

The current manifestation of Isaiah 4:1 is everywhere for us to see if we have eyes to see.

In anointed gentle assemblies all over the world you will find as many as ten women for every man.

And you will find deeply committed women who are looking everywhere for a similarly committed man and not finding one.

So the obvious thing is for women to share a man – it is entirely "scriptural" after all?

But no, women today are programmed from early childhood to desire a monogamous union or nothing – Snow White, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Barbie and Ken all program young girls for Prince Charming in monogamous perfection or nothing – the psychological programming and judgment associated with a woman's man going with another woman is massively traumatic – society sees it as saying something terrible about the woman who is "jilted".

So single believing women keep searching, many of them desperately, for "Mr Right" and not finding him and getting into condemnation because they believe there is something wrong with themselves not realizing that there are just not enough Mr Right's to go round. 

In the process many end up marrying men who are shaky believers, men who claim to be believers or men who are unbelievers because they get desperate and they let go of the commandment NOT to marry unbelievers and in the process many fall away or find themselves in really unpleasant situations.

In this process many get seduced, get involved, walk away because it fails, etc and end up having sex with more than one man – this is adultery and it carries a penalty of part or all of eternity in the lake of fire and brimstone – no matter what the circumstances.

Most single believing women today are faced with the dilemma of either ending up in hell fire for having sex with multiple partners or of staying celibate.

Is there a solution?

The obvious solution is for several women to share one believing man – but in my experience none of them want to do that and for the most part they are incapable of sharing.

Few men want to try and if they have tried they have been so badly beaten up emotionally they do not want to repeat the experiment.

Some women resort to vibrators and some to pornography and that has its own major negative consequences as discussed some months ago – the vibrator is less of a problem than the pornography but it needs to be prayed over and then there is the question of what they think about when they are using it.

Sexual intimacy between women is NOT forbidden in the book and so two women might achieve their sexual and companionship needs in this way.

It is also possible to pray to Yah to take one's sex drive away, accept that you will be celibate for life and that one will not have a "male life partner" and live life alone or with other woman friends in a non-sexual way.

All of these have their challenges – the simple answer to the question – "is there a solution" is that I do not currently have one other than what is outlined above all of which are unpalatable to most single women.

Conclusion

This is a hugely challenging situation.

It is potentially sending millions of believing women to hell.

If you are in this situation you need to really be careful about what you do.

May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.